okay, obviously I'm new. Here's my dillemma. I'm definitely not a club guy and I'm not exactly looking for girls like that so I'm going to primarily practice day game. I havnt even practiced aproaching... The reason? I just can't get past the idea in my head that going up and asking some girl and asking her if men or women lie more (or something like that) just sounds so impractical. Hell, I dont even know where to start looking for women to practice on. Can anyone offer tips and advice? All would be appreciated. Thanks so much. -b0x

Whats about to go into the next mall, enter an clothes shop and ask the shop girl "What from this shop I have to wear to get your attraction ?".
This should give you all possibilities to talk to that girl. And she should always friendly because she wants to sale something to you. You can practice all technics:

"Oh, I believe you need glasses." - neg

"I like this shirt really - as present for my grandpa." - push / pull

and so on ...

And if everything goes well and you like the girl you can also # close.
I think shop girls are perfect for practice.

What does sound practical then?


...Heres the deal, your perceptions regarding women are entering a transition. I was recently at a bar/dance club on ladies night, I was next to the bar with a 3 set (2 HB's 1 UG) I was talking, flirting and just having a good time with these girls when I saw 2 very average guys, with poor body language walking towards me but kind of looking down. As they walked by I overheard one say to the other "This place sucks, there are no girls here." For some reason I just had to talk to these guys...I left the girls and followed the guys to ask what they ment about there being no girls. "They told me all the girls have boyfriends or are busy with thier friends or something"... One of them actually pointed to a girl I had number closed earlier who was near by when I asked for them to show me a girl with a boyfriend... She was out with her younger brother (Who was pretty cool actually).

The whole point of this story is to illistrate the difference in perception as you progress. Most men are waiting for a HB sitting by herself with a signon her forehead that says "Come talk to me, I think your sexy"... lol ironically enough most of these guys can't tell when her body language says that very thing. As you progress you understand that you can't wait for that... you need to just start talking to people. And once your confortable with that you'll have all sorts of fun and interesting conversations... not only pickups... although it is always nice to pickup an attractive woman.

I didn't read the others response, but I will keep it short...

Boxter, What's the big deal... !!

1st. Just approach a girl and ask for the time...
2nd. Approach a girl and ask for an specific shop
3rd. Say hi and talk about the weather

If you complete this three dumb things, you will realize that theres nothing to be afraid of, now in this forth attempt, Say hi and ask for the time... then say Oh I got some time left (Pause) and what are you doing here ?
Answer.... (Sometimes she will ask: And u ? )
Oh really, the funny thing is that I have noticed that Woman tend to go to malls to buy only one thing like a coffee and they end up at Macy's buying shoes... etc...

just my 2 cents

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