What is an alpha male? It is THE ultimate life form. You are carefree, life is a party and you soul punch every negative thing that comes along your way. No-one or thing can get you on your knees. You are proud, you love yourself 100 percent. Nothing can define you. You soar with the eagles.

But.. by being so, don’t you turn into a robot? I try to approach life logically. Every weak emotion I feel, I will analyze it.

If you are a true PUA, then you will find a way to analyze every feeling you have; because every negative feeling is something that tells you that you are weak.

For instance: A true PUA will never be angry, because he accepts things that are, he doesn’t feel the need to get angry, because he is in control, he anticipates on life.

If people tell a PUA that he is a low life, a bastard, a creep, a moron; then they don’t need to defend their own self-worth; he just doesn’t respond, because he does not care.

Downside:

People tell me to stand up for myself. I tell them that I don’t care what people tell me, because why should I react to people that try to put me down? I am the strong silent type.

In my past relationship, my GF would raise her voice, but I told her that I don’t accept behavior like that. Grow up and have good communication, or get the hell out. People state that it’s healthy to have arguments during relationships?

And the main reason; people think I become a cold hearted SOAB made out of stone. In a way they are right, because I live life by analyzing everything scientifically. Your emotions go down a notch.

What do you guys think? What am I doing wrong?