I've been thinking, again.
I scare myself sometimes when actually think about things.

Anyway i've been thinking for now i should only date girls i dont really fancy.
Sounds stupid i know.
But then if it dont go to plan i wont be too bothered.
I dont think i could take it if a another hottie rejects me or flakes on me, i feel like im on the edge of a relapse, so im being careful. I need positive.
Plus then it will be easier to practice my game cus there's no pressure.

Is this just fucked up or good logic?

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Nope, not really flawed logic. If you're self-esteem is being hit too hard at the moment, then sure, take a different direction temporarily. Just don't give up completely on the 10's.

And, work on your inner game BIG TIME while you're at it.

I agree with Tripp, work on your inner game and redirect for a while and work on your game...but dont give up on 9-10's altogether

Well i think its obvious i gotta work on my inner game, and other area's of my life. Im just gonna try this out, but really i just need to meet a girl with nice personality and a few years younger than me. But they seem to be few and far between round here. I might just go out an open about 50 girls (if thats possible im from a small town) and just see what happens. Dont if that will help or harm me. I just have to gather a shit load of openers and put them into use.

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Oh yeah, just to add. Im limited to daygame at the moment and it sucks, i feel like a fish out of water. Money is tight because im about to start a new job, an pretty much all the money i have is tied up in shares.
Alot the openers i dont feel comfortable with for daygame. And im sick of opinion openers. Is it me or are there a lack of good openers out there for daygame without coming accross as a weirdo. Most i use are Situational and direct.
But i've made a list of my best ones, just see what works best.

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To effectively communicate, we must realise that we are all different in the way we percieve the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.

The best openers for each person to use, eventually anyway, are your own openers. Usually situational, but not always. Hell, you can comment on her clothing, on her earrings that are too damn big for her ears, on her eyeliner, pretty much anything like that. Something that she probably put thought into, you could SLIGHTLY neg, just enough to get her attention. Then, IMMEDIATELY stack into something to get her mind off of the neg. Especially if you're staying away from 9's and 10's for the moment.

Sure, day game will be a transition for you from night game, but work at it for a week and I bet you will get smoother at it. Once you get proficient at day and night game, the world is yours bro. And, we're behind you.

Cheers Tripp. I know just need to sarge daygame abit more. Usaully when i go out in the day, its not with the intention to pick up women, but if i get the chance to open one that day thats great, just a bonus. And the best thing about daygame is that they have there bitch sheilds set on low.
I just need to collect a bunch of openers im comfortable with and that fit my personality then theres no stopping me.

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To effectively communicate, we must realise that we are all different in the way we percieve the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.

Hey mozy. That's actually the exact attitude you need for day game. Go about doing your daily business and open any sets that you come across while you're at it. Keep in mind, though, that even though many girls have their bitch shields down during the day, some girls will have bigger bitch shields either because they are having a bad day, or because they are just SO damn busy in their normal daily lives.

And remember, girls LOVE a guy that's busy and is going somewhere with his life. So, you're not obligated to stay and fluff talk. Just number close and time bridge.