Hi,

About a week ago I randomly met a girl at a bar in NYC. I told her I was from Milan and she said she works for a fashion company from Milan, so we started talking and we ended up staying at the bar with our respective friends altogether. I'm kind of sick and tired to fark girls on one-night-stands, so I would like to get a girlfriend, and this one would be perfect for me, given her lifestyle. The thing is that she's 29, has a good job position, and works in the fashion business; and I'm 20, I don't work, and I'm just a student. All I have from her is her business card...

How should I proceed? Detailed plans are more than welcome.

Ask her on date and take it from there.

Thinking into the future like this with a chick you haven't even kissed is not a good thing.

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Is there a word for this pebble? I've been trying to explain this to one of my buddy's. he's just not getting it.
I tell him to come here to learn about women but he's gonna do it "his way" and refuses. Only listens to the advice I give him. Then usually does something else.... Anyway wondering if there's a word for this? He's a master of it. Last one he had their whole life planned out before he even kissed her. She ran like she was on fire lol.

"Chode"

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I like to never leave anything to chance, I like being always in control of the situation. That's why I haven't even tried to kiss her yet. I chose my pray very carefully, I know she would work fine as a girlfriend for a year or so, while I'm the US. I don't plan on making her my fiancee or marry her or anything. It would just be a short-term thing, I know she would be good company for when I'm bored, that's it. No love, no long-term attachments, none of that stuff... Just someone I could spend some time with when I feel like doing something different from hanging out with my bros. And I know she would be perfect for that, I'm not looking for the perfect girl, or the love of my life, etc. So I would like to have clear in mind what are the next steps I should take not fuck it up, and get to date her for at least a couple of months. That's it...

You're mental.

You want a long term girlfriend for a short term period?

You have no idea if she likes you that way but you are already thinking about the future already.

I'm willing to bet you don't have much experience with the opposite sex.

Ditch her after you spend a year together as a couple?!

What if she falls in love? What if you fall in love? It doesn't work like that, LTR's are not logical like that.

Sounds like you just want a fuck buddy you want to see every day then ditch when you see fit.

Mental

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I'm calling bullshit on this

+1

For someone who has so many one night stands is quite naive

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x3 on the BS detector.

Hopefully the brutal honesty SPAM the OP got here doesn't turn him off to the point of ignoring the value in the responses he got. No one, PUA or normal Mr. Niceguy would think it's a good idea to deliberately get into a year long LTR with the explicit idea that a breakup would occur at X point in the future.

That's like emotional masochism.

Lol that's exactly what I've been thinking. Was just looking for a nicer way to tell him. There isn't a nice way is there?

This seems to be a puahate troll to me. But he is not even funny

+1 on the bs

I can already tell your needy. You seriously need to meet more girls. If you managed to get this girl you would only end up posting your problems/asking how you get her back in the future.

So here's your detailed plan

1. Don't get in any kind of LTR for the next year
2. Actually fark at least 10-15 girls from now
3. Work on your inner game

This line really made me lol