I'm 19 and 3/4 from London...
I'm here because I suffered from oneitis from age 16-18 and was friendzoned. Ever since then I've been at Uni I've kissed by count 11 girls but only when I've been drunk so haven't remembered what I even said (if anything). Somehow managed not to sleep with any of them either. Yes. I'm a virgin Came across PUA a year ago through Strauss' book.. I ignored it. Didn't want to accept I need help in something that is meant to be natural. Also I've noticed that out of my friends who pull the MOST, one mentioned a "3 second rule" and the other randomly started trying to learn magic when we were both 17. At the time it was meaningless to me until I actually read Strauss' book.

I could still hope that I learn the normal way and something clicks..but deep down I know considering the girls I've even kissed I haven't even talked to..it's not a good sign. I'm a slow learner. So could probably end up loosing my V at 30 and probably have my first relationship at 40 if I just go all natural.

So I've admitted defeat to my ego and accepted I have a weakness. My ULTIMATE goal would be to lose my V before my 20th..if not then at least before 2014 and I hope you guys can help me in this.

Best of luck on your quest keep at it I didn't lose mine until 20 it was all over from there

Keep your hopes up and don't let anybody let you down!
I think you should start a path of self discovery in order to increase your self-esteem. Believe me, I've done that and things changed drastically (of course in a good way )

Yeah I too noticed that the successful guys have a hell of a lot in common with 'The Game'.

Good luck dude. I hope it works out for you. Don't let losing your V get you down though. If you don't get there before your birthday I'm sure it will be soon after.

I know most will think its a bad idea...

but I think you should lose your V to a nice sexy pornstar looking escort..

Just to scratch the itch, and get it out of the way if you know what I mean.

Goodluck either way, this journey will change your life. I wish I discovered game at your age. (23 for me and now I'm 28)

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Nah I get what you mean...it almost seems like an anchor pegging me down but I dunno, it might be that if I do lose it to an escort I'll just end up feeling a LOT shitter..

What's that movie? "You're putting the pussy on a pedestal".

I didn't lose mine until 19 or 20. It's that insignificant to me now that I don't remember exactly how old I was. It's the subsequent sex I've had ever since that's important.

That's just my view. Not sure how other guys feel.