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Of course approaching groups of women is different, I was talking 1 on 1. But even when approaching groups the goal is to isolate and get them 1 on 1 anyway, then you can escalate from there, without her friends judging
I'm thinking about this strategy when comes to approaching sets where you go direct on the target, threaten the entire set then work to disarm them by saying "Hey introduce me to your friends, that's the polite thing to do." and start talking to them. Instead of trying to disarm everybody and try to isolate after that.
Currently I am reworking my openers to make it fit into my character, I'm not ditching opinion openers as they can be useful in street approaches, "You think this shirt makes me look gay" by stu_Notts is actually pretty good. I need something that is playful and fun since that's the character I am currently building into myself. Right now there's an idea that stand out in my mind:
"Give me a cheesy pickup line"
Instead of using a cheesy pickup line, ask the target for one instead and use it on her, and allow her to roleplay being the judge. Here's how it goes:
Me: Hey can you give me a really bad pickup line?
Her: Hmm... How about "Did it hurt when you fall from heaven? Because you look like an angel." (or any other pickup line she gives)
Me: Let's try this out shall we?? *Turn around, and turn back to face her. Place arms on her shoulder or hips and repeat the cheesy pickup line* So how did I go??

(This needs to be said in a playful tone, and do not let go of your hand after asking her for judgement.)