How do I start.. I have been texting this girl for about 3-4 weeks so far. We met on a party bus had an incredible connection and had a lot in common. That night we ended up giving each other lap dances but she didnt kiss me, got her number though. Did not mention her boyfriend that night till about 4 texts in. When she mentioned I have a boyfriend I used the boyfriend destroyer "thats cute, so tell me about you day. She never mentioned the boyfriend till now(keep in mind my friend is dating her best friend, and I found out that she told her he is the right guy at the wrong time) I know what your thinking oneitis, but I have never had such a great connection with a girl I mean come one she studying physical therapy thats my major, I play a lot of soccer obsessed with it, she coaches under 10 boys, there is other things but dont want to get to much in to detail, besides she has been going out with this guy for 1-2 months barely. Today I thought there was change and thought she was starting to get more inclined towards me until she brought up her boyfriend. Let me show my convo today and tell me what you guys think.

Me: (after 5 days of not texting her) How r u doin today on a scale 1 to 10.. 11:17am

her: good morning an 8 why? how about u? 11:27am


me: A wise man once told me you can look at yourself with new eyes, and open yourself up to new experiences tht you've never even considered as part of your own human potential, or you can do the same things, same way, until you reach your coffin. I decided to apply this concept in motion and came to cowells mountain the wierd part is when I reached the top of the mountain I observed how nice it was and how relaxing it is to be one with nature lol and thought of you. 11:39am

her:I like what this old wise man told you and I very much agree especially because I love trying new things and hate routine I feel touched that you thought of me at the top of the mountain Ive been there before it is very nice Im sure you must be super hot with the heat up there I dont know how you managed. I I may ask? why did you think of me? Oh and I heard you went to PB I was so mad that I couldnt go. 11:48am

me: Its a mystery lol..all i can say is the most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the true source of all art and science. 11:58am.... And to add to that, you cant grow if you already know the answers before the questions have ever been asked..12:00pm

her: Mystery makes everything so much intriguing & youre right we cant grow if we keep asking questions to which we already know the answers to, yet everyone always does...1:32pm

me: there is saying tht has to do with always relying on figurin the answer to a question.." advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didnt( how ironic right tht im saying this jaja) Thts awesome tht your able to relate with me in these concepts just for tht u get another 5 pts...damn tht puts you at 20 pts from the other pts I gave you.. you keep this up you will get 50 pts=2 min bicep grab...I know thts overwhelming but try to control yourself jaja...2:48pm

her: hahahahahahaha a bicep grab! oh watch out ! im pretty close then. and imma have to agree again with the advice thing, we always know what the other person is going to say especially because its common sense but we just dont want to admit to ourselves the truth and have to hear it from someone else. or how I do I ask anais something but i tell her to lie to me and paint the situation pretty haha...4:42pm

here we go the good part

me: hey mikey and me are going to basement tomorrow you guys should come with us...7:20pm

her: Whats basement I dont think Ive been there. Well we dont have anything to do tomorrow so maybe we will. Let me ask anais and gio and ill let you know.. tell mikey to text anais(friend dating her friend but not really jaja)...7:40pm

me: Oh so mikey has to text anais to go thts cute its like we are in highschool all over again..8:47pm

her: its because if I go out with you guys and anais doesnt I look bad especially bc I have a boyfriend idk if you remember tht small detail haha...8:49pm

me: you should bring your bf..8:57pm

her: he cant go he works the next day...9:17pm

me: tell your friends to get with my friends and we can be friends we can do this every weekened...9:57 pm


so thats the convo today so need someone to analyze the convo and if she does go out tomorrow with us what are my main objectives.. also should I continue or pull the trigger with her..

I think you should wait another 3 or 4 weeks before you make a move, that should stroke her ego just fine.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Cool...if you dont mind me asking why wait another 3 -4 weeks

I was fucking with you.

'Sarcasm'

This is not;

She is into you, boyfriend or not. But you need to make a move on her soon or you will miss the chance, you'll be 'friend zoned'.

Step 1. Isolate
Step 2. Escalate
Step 3. K-close/F-close

Do not mention the boyfriend. Side step/ignore if she does (unless he's on his way to beat your ASS of course)

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.