I'm beginning to realize tactics and strategies are everything. After you gain the basic skills, you need to have some kind of plan when you sarge... I've found if I have a goal in mind I'll be more successful.

Without goal, I simply drift! This leads me to:

1. Realize what you want: one-night stands, long-term relationships, marriage,...

2. Devise a plan to achieve it - don't drift.

3. Don't give up to you achieve your goal!

Before learning PU and seduction skills, I couldn't even talk to a woman for more than a few minutes! Now I approach strangers (women) and were laughing and joking in minutes! WOW!

Oh nice! I was gonna create a post like this but didn't know where to put it but I'm glad I found someone who made one.

For the time being I'm gonna post my short term goals. I find that writing down these things actually pushes me to achieve them.

1) Going out more often to sarge
2) Completely eliminate my fear of attractive girls
3) Prove to my non-believing friends that sedcution works. (not mandatory, it's really just so I can boast )

Kingp!n, in addition to number three on your goal list, you could include getting your friends to go out sarging with you once you've proved seduction works. My goal list was similar to yours and I added that to the end. Safety in numbers, and you can get more sets if you have a buddy to help you out.

Sorry, that last one was me, I forgot to log in

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"We are what we constantly do. Therefore excellence is not rare, but a habit"

hey im new at this whole PUA thing, so i figure goals are probly more important now than ever. So following a lead, i have thought up these goals:
* i wont dwell on a crash and burn when i fail a set (i figure its gonna happen pretty quick)
* i will work on the "creating value" and "social proof"
* i will dedicate nights to sarging and set openers, and not stopping for a possible PU

if anyone has any thoughts on my goals, or thinks i should add some, please do

k i'm pretty new to this pua thing...the thing is i've always been able to approach random strangers and start conversations with them, and i haven't ever met a person without getting them to laugh...i've number closed quite a few B's but like, I find it super hard and akward to KC...suggestions? thank you in advance

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It's Better To Burn Out Than To Fade Away...

To KC (Kiss Close) its all about building up sexual tension. If you're having fun making them laugh, and suddenly go in for a kiss, they will likely reject you or find it very awkward because you have not built up sexual tension. It will seem like you are pulling a move on them.

You need to build up sexual tension by gradually increasing kino (touching), and having constant, direct eye contact, and then putting a sexual charge into both your eyes and the way you look at her, as well as into your words. Ask questions and steer the conversation towards the topic of love, relationships, and even sex. This will get her thinking about you in a romantic, sexual way and not just as a funny friend.

Also try the eyes to mouth technique, where you look at her eyes and then down to her mouth, and then back up to her eyes. This will signal to her that you want to kiss her.

Basically the point is that you need to increase sexual tension in a progressive way so that you are touching, holding strong eye contact, ect ect. Don't hold back, let your attraction for the woman show through these techniques (this is done after the initial stages of meeting a girl, so at this point you don't have to worry about "not showing too much interest." You are way beyond that stage at this point.

If you increase sexual tension properly, the kiss will come so easy because you have built up to the point where it just seems so natural. It will be natural not only for the girl, but for YOU, to the point where you won't feel awkward or apprehensive about going for it.

to become the best pickup artist in the world

"If you aim for the moon and miss, at least you will be among the stars."

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"RESPECT THE COCK AND TAME THE CUNT"

Personally, I like a combination of both realistic and obtainable goals with a long term high goal. For example, if you've ever read Mystery's book, one can take a one of his examples and/or steps and try to accomplish that throughout the course of the week.

i.e: Open five sets and engage them for 10 minutes; number close 3 targets; kiss close 2 target; isolate 1 target.

Any one of these can be your goals for the weeks. Each time you must move one step farther along the PuA ladder. Eventually you'll realize that your skills have become progressively better...

My goals are simple.
To appear to be a natural.
I will have "arrived" when i don't need to use canned lines and when my personality actually is natural.

I want to become one of the world's greatest romantics.
I've always watched romantic comedys, chick flicks..you name it.
I am working towards being one of the world's greatest seducers.

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on't you love te feeling of making someone's day?

well thts not what i want to be u see

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BAIT>HOOK>REEL>RELEASE

yeh totally

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BAIT>HOOK>REEL>RELEASE

as my homeboy Hobbit would say...

"KINO, GET GOOD AT IT"

as im just starting out im starting with not breaking eye contact with anyone, if something witty pops into my head dont bite my tounge and stop treating women as if there from another planet despite the famous book title lol.

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its MY world and your all just living in it.