Hey guys,

Every form of PUA book always speaks alot about the connection part or the comfort zone. I keep getting the same problem over and over again and its enough. Ill explain with an example, just today I was speaking to some girls and I invite the hottest girl to come talk to me while we chill in the park, we start talking fluff talk and slowly she just opened up to me about how she had aneroxia a while ago, and i dont want it to but she starts talking very seriously about stuff like this. Im trying to get with the girl here, im trying to keep things light but the conversation often becomes too serious.

Basically, Next time I get a girl alone what can I do to make both of us have fun and make her even more attracted?

This isnt a question about making a move, its about good conversation when alone together.

You need to steer the conversation. You should have conversational topics that you like to speak about filed away in the back of your head ready to go at a moments notice. BTW, I don't actually use comfort in my seduction style. I think it's vastly overrated.

Steering the conversation is easier said than done.

I try and direct things but its not easy to continuously find attractive or interesting things to say.
There has to be some method or somehow I can learn!

I don't see the problem.

Girls open up to you emotionally which usually opens the vagina wide too. How is that a bad thing?

From your other thread, you are not getting friend zoned either so I see no down sides to this "sticking point"

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Hey,

What Im doing seems contrary to everything I've read.

Im not showing any of the attraction switches. Which is the standard for getting a girl attracted.

Id prefer the rockstar lifestyle of having many girls begging for me, rather then simply getting 1 girl once in a while. The problem truly is that im not being Alpha. And that needs to change

Thanks for your help

In that case..

I'm willing to bet it's not your lack of alpha traits and that it is that you talk too much and not physically escalate as much as you should.

Rate your escalation skills on a scale of 1-10 for me and if you're honest with your self im willing to bet that it will be a low number.

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to be honest its probably no higher then a 5

thats something really helpful to look for. No doubt next time im out ill try being more touchy

do you have any tips or know anything to read that will be helpful in kino?

Read 60 years of challenge.

or google for some articles and reviews etc.

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Here's a classic (Vin DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder) : http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Esc ... lo.com.pdf

-Wolf

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