I came up and did this several times to build an attraction. I could cold-read someone very well and am very perceptive about how people work.

HER: I don't really like that too much. But I do like [blah, blah, blah]
ME: I guess you'll say your indecisive sometimes. WOuldn't you agree?
HER: Sometimes. But not that much! I guess, I can be sometimes but I try not to be that way.
ME: You're still being indecisive! [SNIPER NEG].
HER: [Laughs] I guess---
ME: Yeah, I know I'm right! I'm always right! The question is when do you know you made the right decision? [C&F and TEASING]
HER: Well, somtmes I don't know-I just follows what my head tells me!
ME: That little voice inside everyone's head. So are you telling me you hear voices? [Look at her concerned] (This is a SNIPER NEG and a VALIDATION)
HER: {laughs} no! I don't!
ME: Oh, I see! So your more rationional in some sense than most times. Only when you have to be crucital? [COLD-READ]
HER: Yeah! LIke sometimes when I [blah, blah, blah]!
ME: What about if some guy asked you to take you out to say...[place]. Would you then be decisive or indecisive?
HER: It depends how I feel about the guy, really!
ME: What if it would be a great guy you just met and was attracted to ever since you saw him and he told you up to your face, "Let's go out to [place]!" Then what would you do?
HER: I'll probably say yes.
ME: Great! Let's go to [place] this [day your free and make it soon as possible so she's still thinking about it.]
HER: Okay!
ME: Great! Gimme your number. [Hand her your phone and she'll enter her number and save it. Then call her number and then she'll get your number and save it! PRESTO!

Simple as pie right? It's kinda like eating candy from children! LOL! In the middle to the end I used NLP technique and a mind-game to get her to say yes by referring it to some guy not me. She already agreed and once that happens then you can take your prize!

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Good Post, I find Cold Reading very easy personally. I worked in the hotel business for 4 years and saw nothing but customer's at all times of day. You get a feel for people pretty quick. Then I spent another 4 years in car sales, where you had to "learn" to read body language of your customer's and how to close them. You learn to build rapport, and influence people. You learn how to listen for on the phone "voice inflection, verbal pace, tonality, etc." After all those years of that stuff and teaching people how to do it, it becomes second nature like breathing.

This is a trait that is learned, this is why calibrating is so important through frequent times out in the field. For those that haven't been exposed to so many various kinds of people it can be difficult.


Good Post Stealth7!

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I told her:

"Between reading your plam, body language, and handwriting, I can tell you when you trimmed your bikini line last."

I like the way it leads to the # close. But some of answer at the beggining you would need abit of luck to get, maybe plan for serveral different responses and set her up for the answer you are looking for. I like it though, its good.

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It's true to be very good at cold-reading! Starting out and haven't learned Body Language will make it difficult for you to read someone's response. But once you're able to read a person's tone and how they say it, also how they shift their bodies will be able to clue you for the next response. My suggestion is to constantly observe people and read books about body language. Once you have gained this skillful art then you'll be able to maneuver it in your game. Thanks for reading! HOpe you post some more comments! Thanks! Peace out!

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