"First you have to get yourself to that level of thinking at which your goal can be achieved. After you get to that level of thinking, then you can start identifying action steps and these action steps will make sense." -Steve Pavlina
Also Balance long distance role models with real life role models that and have face time via/ close interaction.
Here is some knowledge on achieving goals from Steve Pavlina. Google him great goal guru.

1.You’ll shed limiting beliefs and perspectives that align with the old vibe, replacing them with new truths that align with the new vibe.
2.You’ll shed negative relationships that are bad match for your new vibe, and you’ll add positive new relationships that are well aligned with it.
3.You’ll stop feeding your power to excuses and obstacles, and you’ll begin emitting a more powerful vibe that draws your goal increasingly near.

1.Define your outcome.
2.Develop a deeper understanding of the new vibe that matches the goal (get face time with people who’ve achieved it, visualize yourself as already there).
3.Contrast your current vibe with the new vibe to see where you’re out of alignment (use contrasting visualizations, broadcast your desires).
4.Identify the personal growth work necessary to adjust your vibe (new truths, new connections, smarter application of your power).
5.Use your favorite processes to do the personal growth work until you achieve enough alignment to experience the flow of inspired action.
6.Allow the flow of inspired action (not force) to guide you to your goal.
7.Enjoy the harmonious manifestation of your goal.

Steve is a genius. This stuff is gold.

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