So I have recently decided to start trying to get at women again after Igot out of a 4 year relationship. It's been close to a year now and its not like I haven't been trying but i feel like im stuck in practie mode. What do I mean? Well the few times I've been to the club with some friends I've surprised my self that I can still pull numbers. I am no pro but I've been more succesful with that lately.

Now this is why I feel like im in practice mode. After all this recently improved game I'de think I'de atleast be on one date but I cant get past the post encounter conversation. I dont know what I would do on a date or how to even bring up another encounter or how I would handle that. Any advice or tips on how to improve this?

Did you date your ex?

Well, do same thing.

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Well it wasnt very "traditional." I didnt go out of my way to woo her till later on and for a while most of the effort came from her. Also she was my first gf and we started of as friends so the situations where different. It seems harder when im.trying to date people that are initially strangers. I'm pretty much in square 1 again. Never really had much experience past what I've already said. so again I am newish lol

Read up on some material. I'm sure there is plenty of content on this very forum.

But there is a lot that you didn't mention:

Are you going out regularly?

Are you getting numbers regularly?

Are you getting girls wanting to see you regularly?

If not, then you have to do what most newbie do. Start meeting women until you become competent at it.

Once you're on a date it's much easier since she likes you so you're almost guaranteed a kiss etc and possibly more if you have things set up.

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1) Every other weekend

2) Not regularly but recently

So advice noted. Thanks! Women here I come lol.