Man ur good at this lol She cracked. Not a 100% but she cracked: ' Actually I just might go with u. What time r u going on saturday? & who all is going with u?'. There r a few things Ive noticed in this initial reply: 1. 'Might' 2. Asks who else is going 3. Does ask about the time im going.
What should be my next move? Keep ignoring or tell her the time im going? And should i ignore the question about who else is going or tell her its just me?

You can Take JoeySkills with you But jokes aside I would just reply "Dunno who's coming yet, I'll see you at xxx time, wear something sexy "
Personally I wouldn't over complicate this, which might not work here, but I wouldn't go for this type of girl anyway.

Basically man, women aren't used to guys ignoring them when they even make vague attempts to hang out with them. Guys are usually drooling over the opportunity to spend time with women and thats why this is working so well.

Sure if you ignore a woman who is saying " Hey " eventually she won't follow up. But when you ignore a girl asking to see you this takes a whole new turn. Guys don't behave this well.. We'll normal guys don't. She's still trying to hold onto too much by saying "might". I personally wouldn't reply to that either. She needs to be train. Right now you are leading; by only responding when she steps off her high horse.

She wants you but its trying hard not to show it.. Don't accept that.

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I knew u'd suggest smthg like that lol &Im gonna follow ur suggestion, Joey. I bet she'll be pissed when she gets back home &wont find my reply in her ipod's txting app tho.. Will prolly txt in a few hours smthg like 'Why r u ignoring me again?' or 'Do u want me to go with u tomorrow or not?'.

Haha this was very entertaining to read. Joey knows his stuff.

Update: didn't txt me since then. Seems like trying to ignore me back

I was waiting for you to post that, told you it'll backfire. Now its your turn to show interest and contact or else she WILL move on.

Give it 2 more days- If still nothing, I'll tell you what to do.

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I just want to acknowledged you briefly, because I see you desperate efforts to be listened to.

What I am doing here is not about her, its about him. I walking him through the process of letting go; which is of vital importance to his future with women and life as a whole. I'm sure you've heard the quote " give a man a fish he eats for a day; teach a man to fish he eats for a life time ". I'm teaching the man to fish Wizzay.


But all in all your input is much appreciated

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I actually did let go of her already. Doesn't mean I don't wanna fclose her tho lol I actually went out on a few dates with other chicks recently &k-closed with one.

Yes ,desperate maybe, when I put my time into a post to try to help someone which doesn't even reply hahhaha.. anyways good luck. Lets see if he can let go this way,I will follow this thread.

I just want to keep everyone updated so I'm going to add my PM's about this post from Dimitry to the actual post.

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So after two days he hadn't heard from her.. I told him to text her " Tomorrow! What are you doing? "

She replied: Idk, maybe going 2 Ashley Park. Y?

I told him to reply: "Awesome. I'll tag along - Who's going? " - he decided to leave out the Who's going part.. Which was important because it positioned her to jump through a hoop. So he texted " Awesome. I'll tag along" ( everything i tell you to text i for a reason.. leave nothing out; not even punctuation

She texted him twice, he ignored it.. and she finally asked " You didn't even ask what time? "


He ignored that

Then she texted '???' at like 1:30am followed by 'We r gonna go to ap at 12:30 or 1 &meet up at B&N


Mission accomplished?

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I like this. I remember advising a guy to text something once and he texted something similar but left out some key components that made it what it was. It's never just about the "gist" of something with women like it is with men. Everything has to be just right.

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Went out. Her friend was with her(the girl that sent me a few txts a couple of weeks earlier) -turned out to be pretty cool. Went for a hug as I saw her but she stopped me by pushing me away with her hand saying 'Whoa - u cant hug me! U didnt txt me back for like 2 weeks'. I was like 'thats very rude of u' &her friend supported me on that lol Anyways, I decided to first develop a connection with her friend which turned out to be pretty easy cus her friend is into video games and has a good sense of humor. So we talked about video games w/ her friend and what not ignoring her for awhile &making fun of her occasionally lol I threw quite a few negs in, alled her retarded a few times playfully. When we were walking she said that my pants are tight &her and her friends started giving comments on my ass lol I asked her if she wants to touch it &she said 'sure' and grabbed it xD I said: 'Ok, my turn!' She said 'Ok' I grabbed her ass xD Then we got to Starbucks cafe where I succeded with some kino. She allowed to:touch her legs(she had shorts on), touch/hold her hand time to time. At some point she got a piece of napkin and tried to stick it under my t-shirt(succeded and I think she just wanted to touch my chest muscles lol). I said playfully: 'well, that was rude - im gonna get u back, u know' and put it under her shirt(and touched her boobs'. She said 'U touched my boobs!' I said 'Well, u touched mines! lol' Then we had a moment when she tried to take a pic of me and her friend and send it to her ex in order to make him jelous. Her friend &me both didnt wanna get into the camera &she promised to her friend to give her candies if she allows her to make a pic. & she offered me the same & I said 'Hell no - candies wont do it! lol U gotta give me a kiss on the lips!' She almost gave in(her friend was on my side again lol) but didnt happen. Later she sneaked up on me and made a photo(i was looking away). I was like 'U owe me a kiss now!' She said 'no i dont!' I said 'Those pics are copyrighted - u gotta pay with a kiss in order to use em' she responded 'too late -sent it!' Me: 'too late -(pulling her towards me and quickly kissing) u got kissed!' Her friend gave an approving laugh and she pretended like she was disgusted..
I asked her what's she doing 2morrow. She said she'll be busy preparing for a test.
She kept using as an excuse to not to kiss me the fact that I didnt txt her for 2 weeks and that she hates when ppl dont txt her back. Kept asking me why.
I think I prolly fucked up on at least 1 of shit tests.. When we were sitting at Starbucks a fit tall older guy walked in(with his wife) and she started talking about how she'd def fuck him and shit. And then she said to her friend 'come on, lets go and get a closer look at him!' and dropped to me 'And u stay here!' and they both almost ran towards that guy leaving me at the table. I said 'wtf?' Stood up and started walking towards the exit. Once I started walking away she ran back to me and said 'what's up? Why are u leaving?' to which I replied 'Cus u're being rude'. Her: 'how am I being rude?'. Me(hugging her and saying playfully): 'cus it seems ur attention is focused somewhere else and I dont have time for all this bs'. Her: 'Why r u hugging me? Ur supposed to be angry right now'. The guy walks by and she starts talking about him again about how he's fit and taller than me'. I drop 'have fun and start walking away. Her 'bye!'. Sees me walking away, chases me, grabs my hand and pulls me back lol Well, I went back to the table with her. I wasnt seriously upset about that situation there. I was playing around. But now that I think of it.. I prolly could do much better. I could say smthg like: 'yeah - that guy looks awesome - maybe we can talk him into having a threesome with u and me!'

At the end her mother stopped by to pick her up(outside starbucks) and we hugged. And it was not a friendly hug - we hugged for about 5-10secs and hips to hips. But no kiss again - dropped that she doesnt kiss some1 sho doesnt txt her/ignores her. And said she doesnt hang out with some1 who ignores her. Then said 'we'll see if ur gonna txt me next week'

Overall, interaction was alot better then b4. I did fuck up a few times but I think I had a better game this time than the previous times I went out with her.

Thanks for Joey's guidance - his strategy and advises worked miracles here. I think my game def improved in the last couple of weeks and I gained confidence. & thanks for everyone's feedback. +thanks for all the great topics on the forum and to ppl sharing their knowledge and experience.

The question now is: what should I do next? Whats the best strategy here? Every time I went for a kiss she kept saying that she cant kiss me cus I didnt txt her &was ignoring her. Should I txt her now? &what should I txt?

Hey dude..

I'm really busy but I'll read this an get back to you later.

Just be patient though man..If you learned anything from this entire thread its that a girl won't go anywhere as long as you don't need them. Time/Space have nothing to do with seduction. I've strung girls along for over a year before hanging out with them once.

Be with yourself and enjoy yourself. She's going to be there.

Peace & Love

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