| So i'm still in the middle of exam period. but after an exam, i decide to go out to buy some new shoes. after i do so and hang out with Shan for a bit, i see this quite smartly dressed lawyer type looking girl with long flowing black hair walking on Market St i.e Manchester Daygame Dojo. First set of the day, yikes! But recently i've told myself i need to approach with more conviction (Beckster's Big C vs Little C and all), so i did it for practice.
As i come round the front of her with a Yad Stop, i see she's actually very pretty. She gets a bit shocked, but thats never a bad thing because when that happens their attention or RAS is completely on you.
And as soon as i give the compliment and state an assumption, she hooks, asking me where i'm from (since i'm so exotic & sexy). We chat for a bit, then says to me, "Are we gonna stand here, or shall we go somewhere else and continue this." Woah, first time a set has suggested an instant date. And i haven't had one in a month, so i think to myself, "Fuck revision, lets run some game."
We go on the ID. i find out she's of Turkish descent, former Liverpool Uni law student, currently a trainee lawyer, 23 yrs old & talks a lot. i number close at the end. after i sent the first text an hour later, she replies saying,
"It was different to meet you, very lovely and the intro was my favourite.. I'm always nice to new people, especially if they introduce themselves the way you did, could say you defined the day.. if that made sense?.."
This is why i love daygame. Its magical. Like the No. 142 bus. #magicalbus
But to be serious, i haven't had a day a woman doesn't say to me, "I like your confidence, i wish more guys would be like you especially during the day." Daygame is beautiful.
So anyway, she texts me on Saturday night 1/6/13. I set up a date on Tuesday, but she says she's not free & wants to see me tonight after work at 10 pm. Screw frame control & "being alpha" at this point, if a girl says she cant see you but re-arranges the date quite clearly, go for it. So i jump on it, telling her to meet me at 10.15pm on the bridge in Piccadilly Gardens (how romantic). Always be leading.
So i get there on time (Shane - ever the gentleman), but she calls me two minutes later saying she's nowhere near cause she's just got outta work. She asks me to come down to Oxford Rd where she is. Now at this point i have two options:
Make her get on the bus and come see me (holding the frame blablabla), or i go down to Oxford Rd & see her.
Oxford Rd is closer to where i live, so i go and see her. Like DUH.
As i step off the bus, she's there to greet me and we embrace like long lost lovers. I tell her we should live life in the moment, so i take her hand as we go over to Black Dog Bar just off Oxford Rd. I strongly recommend this place for a date, its perfect.
We chat for a bit, i find out more about her. I spike it up by talking bout sex in the animal kingdom, since i'm a biologist. She surprises me pleasantly by how much she knows about biology & travel etc. I find intelligence super sexy. We then enter more deep comfort.
After that we bounce to Cornerhouse, a cool bar on Oxford Rd, if you're ever in Manchester. She says at first she wants some coffee, but changes her mind saying she wants more alcohol. When she asks me what i want, i say, "Surprise me." At this point, i was already pretty drunk.
So we talk some more, i realised there was too much comfort talk, so i spike it by saying, "I'm going to toilet, but when i come back, i'm gonna try & kiss you."
I didnt actually try to kiss her then. But we bounced out, and i said to her lets grab a milkshake from my favourite place. No its not Archie's, sorry Shantanu. She asks where it is, i say Fallowfield. She then asks where i live, i say Fallowfield. We both laugh, knowing the plot. She says to me,"Well, if i'm staying over tonight let me get a bottle of wine first." Of course i agree!
So we go back to mine, i put on a movie with many sex scenes (Vicky Christina Barcelona it was, starring Scarlett Johansson, Rebecca Hall & Javier Bardem). I could feel the sexual tension getting really high, and her way of defusing it was to simply talk her mouth off. Since there was a fair amount of tension, and i wanted her to just STFU, i looked into her eyes, put my hand behind her head & pulled her in. Kiss-close, full on make-out.
I pulled away first, to watch more of the movie. Push/pull, its called. hehe. So after making out with her again, she says, "I'm not gonna have sex with you tonight." I say the tried & tested Beckster line: "I need trust, comfort & connection before anything can happen." we continue making out, but with her resisting any further escalation, i decided to do major fractionation. How? Take her to Winkies. its my favourite fast food place, right at my doorstep. Same place i took my last lay.
As i walk in, the staff greet me. She picks up on the social proof immediately. I can't stress enough how important it can be. We grab a milkshake each, i grab a burger, and go back to mine to finish watching the movie. I eat my burger, not giving a shit bout her for awhile. She tries to get my attention my stealing my food. Asshole. Don't mess with my food.
When i finish, i shut my laptop, we make out heavily. She wants to wear my PJs. Sure, why not, if i'm gonna get them off later anyways. we get into bed, her with my pajamas on, still making out. She keeps saying, "Shane i like how persistent you are, but i'm not gonna sleep with you." Her back keeps arching, her hips grind against me. I'm listening to her actions, not her words.
i slip my hand down, she's soaking wet. and so are my PJs. But she stops me from taking them off. No, i wont sleep with you, she keeps saying. So after two hours of LMR, i remember a story in Tom Torero's book Daygame, where he says going to sleep for a few hours might build enough comfort for her to actually sleep with you. Which is what i did; go to sleep.
Three hours later, i wake her up by kissing her. This time, its on. The PJs come off, i'm fingering her wet pussy, she's rubbing my dick. She doesn't give blowjobs, but i go down on her. next thing you know, its game over.
We fuck hard for about an hour, with me loving both her double D tits & daygame. haha. She leaves 20 minutes before my most important football game of the season, and i feel all warmed up for it. my teammates who live with me said to me with smirks, "Could hear you having another go this morning lad." *wink*
If only they knew what hard work last night was.
But i guess i'm the only one amongst the newly crowned Manchester University Football League F champions who truly knows that:
"Game is good, always & everywhere."
P.S i've washed my PJ's.
_________________
Shane, Executive Instructor for Social Zen.
socialzen.co.uk
|
CHAT