I met a chill girl last night at a barbeque and we had a good time and then we parted ways but I hit her up on facebook this morning just chatting, but I realize that I really shouldn't continue with this because I just want to ask her out. But I can't do that because I have a girlfriend... so any ideas on the best way to close the conversation with her so it doesn't get boring and drawn out but also keep her in the background so it doesn't turn into a just friends thing?

You really should stop talking to her if you don't want this to go into a friend thing. But...

Not like it's any of my business... But I don't keep girls in the background when I have a girlfriend. It would make me feel insecure that I need second option. If I start a committed relationship, I think about it very seriously and don't fuck around, and don't prepare safety for "What if things go wrong". I will handle that IF things go wrong.

I don't know how long have you been together. And if it's just the chill of the hunt, or you don't trust in your relationship with your girlfriend. If it's the latter then you two have issues. Far more important currently, than a random girl you met. If it's the former then it's okay, every men experiences that once in a while.

Just keep these in mind...

Peace,

In$tinct.

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Think about it this way: Would you like it if your girlfriend met a guy at some place without you knowing about it and is doing the same thing you've been doing?

If you don't accept that being done to you, then don't accept it being done to her.

If you're starting to have just 1% of a second option, it means there's some difficulties in your relationship. Be careful, things might get rough if you continue with this. If you want your relationship to stay, back off. That's my opinion though.