Hi there ive posted a couple times and long story short i just wanna hear a couple responses on how i can do this. Thing is i sorta know this girl but im only interested in just hooking up with her only, like i am not really interested in having a relationship with her. Thing is i am not sure how she will react and the thing is im not really sure how much she likes me either, i mean whenever we see each other there is some sorta feeling between us but im not certain if she's up for what i propose to her, i dont know how she will react. I am wondering what you guys have done and or what u guys would do if you were me.

Just run regular game on her and don't do anything boyfriendy like take her on dates. I've had this with girls before and the thing is she'll definitely want to date u but as long as you say you're not looking for a relationship right now it's not really a dick move and you should still be able to be friends.

Don't ask for a date. The best thing to do is ask if she wants to keep you company while you run an errand, then spontaneously make it two or three things, even call her your friend, even though she isn't. Eventually you end up asking her to your place for a movie.

Don't ask her anything. Make moves.

First comes motion then comes emotion.

Christ i hope this works out... guess ill call her

Last time I did something similar it was exam period. It went like this. I met her to borrow a book from her to study and we started talking...

-bla bla bla... God I'm so fed up with studying. I think I need a little break.
(... bla bla bla)
-It would be nice to drink something and just let loose a bit.
(... bla bla bla)
-You should come over next week. We'll watch a movie and drink something.(very obvious. No girl is that stupid to not get this hint. But it looked like she seduced me into doing this. Girls love that shit )

She agreed and after we finished our bottle of vodka we were banging for 4 hours straight. My neighbours in the dorm were not happy and I had to wear a scarf on the exam that was a week later(!!) to cover up the hickeys lol. Girl was a real beast.

Before she came over we talked a few times on fb and I was quite sexual and making sure she knows what's going to happen(and is looking forward to it)

So that's the key I think. Be smooth, but bold at the same time. She either wants the D, or not, but this is the single most efficient way of finding it out.

_________________
"Bros before hoes"

Relationship guide: extended-relationship-guide-vt170687.html

http://wayoftheplayer.com/become-a-player/instinct

Wow, u lucky guy man, really cool advice except the thing is i'm still at my parents place so i can't really bring her over to my place and I don't drink and also she doesn't drink as far as i know. Is there something else i can say to her that i can figure out if she's in? Im thinking of texting her but i wanna say it right and smoothly

How old are you guys, that it's a problem for your parents that you bring over girls?

Anyway... You can suggest to watch a movie at hers if it is better from a logistical point of view. This is like a universal code. Watching a movie = Sex. Unless you are BFF. There was only ONE girl that I didn't intend to fuck when I suggested watching a movie, and even then things became quite interesting.

She was massaging my back while I was half naked and we were watching Inception. When we went out to the balcony to smoke a cigarette, we started joking about "This is only a dream" . And then I told her that I know it's not because "my totem is signaling me that I'm not dreaming when you massage me". It got me a huge laugh, and "that look".

I don't exactly remember when but pick-up at some point turned me into a sexual beast and I could hardly repress it now even when I want to, lol. Long story short this girl is now my girlfriend. (Long story because we didn't hook up then, only later and lots of things happened in the meantime that led to this relationship, not quite related to this post, since you don't want this girl to be your gf)

Some guys may tell you here that it's not too unique and every beta guy does this to invite her for a movie, but what they don't realise that the beta guy will not get the girl interested in having sex with him. If the girl is interested then I always say that make it as simple as possible. "Come over and we shall fuck" is not usually worky, though it might be if you arouse her with sexts, but since you know this girl for a while I don't think it would be congruent with your current relationship. That's why I suggested something not so blunt, but obvious.

And I feel you... I hate it when everything is on good track and then logistics fuck things up, so I wish you all the luck. And one more advice. The sooner you can solve this little logistical problem and make your move, the better chances you will have.

_________________
"Bros before hoes"

Relationship guide: extended-relationship-guide-vt170687.html

http://wayoftheplayer.com/become-a-player/instinct