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How do you guys deal with girls that know you get girls easily ? Those girls that are super careful, & after a few good dates, end up avoiding me & acting distant. I usually don't care & move on, but I managed to ask one of them the reason & she said she started liking me & its to forget me since I'm a player. I am really confident & girls always figure that I am a player who gets every girl, It helps because they find me extremely attractive & know I'm desired by other girls but I think its starting to back fire on me now, This has happened to me 3 times now, so I am just wondering, how do you PUA's deal with these type of girls & these two problems? One of them is the girl knowing you're a player & get girls so they wanna be different from the rest & are careful around you, & the second problem is when you actually take them out on dates, after a couple, these same girls act distant after a few dates. They'll still kiss me & we can be sexual, but wont say yes to hanging out or to dates, so no sex actually happens. The girl I'm dealing with now is doing the same, so its the 4th girl to do this. I am 19 btw.
You're giving off the vibe to them that you are a player yet you are taking girls on dates? That isn't congruent. Most girls prefer to sleep with a guy who is a player vs. a guy who can't get laid. You are presenting yourself as one (as you say) then you are wining and dining the girl who is just expecting you to fuck her. Again, you are not being congruent. Either be the player or be the provider. Don't treat one girl as special because you are afraid of losing her.
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