I am quite new to all of this (I begun to know about it 6 months ago) and I can assure the method does work... I used to try to meet women on the internet (cause I found it easier and I used to be shy with women). Everytime, I made good impression in the internet, but then I could not even kiss her when it came to meet her. I just did not know how to do... All the tutorials, all the books and all the practice gave me all I needed to know what to do, how to say, and WHEN to say what I had to say. I was being able to excite women I never met before, in a more powerful way I could never imagine...

In the last 30 days, I did f-close 4 women out of 5 I met. 3 of them were a f-close after the first meet. One of them took me two dates. To me the purpose of the method is to find a good looking super high quality woman and stop sarging, and staying with her... The plan is to sarge and when you find one that I like I stop sarging until I need it badly.

I want to tell you about this latest sarge, cause I consider her as my real first f-close since I did not meet her in a dating site. I am a banker, and one day there was this very cute and good looking girl who came to do some photocopies. Me and my collegues thought shes was extremely good looking but it stopped there. I did not talk to her and continued to work. After a while one collegue told me incidentally what her name was. 5 min after, just after she sent an email to the whole floor, I chat with her on the internal messenger of the company talking about the email she sent.. I was arguing about something in her email. Then I begun to flirt and play very solid game for the last few hours, not SPAM anything, being funny, being cocky.... The same day (it was a friday), I told her I was going to a karaoke with firneds and we should meet but we should act as if we did not know each other (so that no one else knows...). By the way, I suggest everyone should try to do that with a girl, cause they love it, anyway. I arrived at the karaoke, and honestly it was crap, so I prefered to go and meet her. Which I did. I arrived and met her friends. Her Chinese friend was clearly interested in me so I played a bit with her, then focusing my attention on my date. After 1h, her friend left. I played my best game, still not giving up anything, she ended up buying my drinks, but I admit I could not kiss her, even if I tried - hard. :p

We went back home she texted me :"was v amusing bla bla bla"
I did answer "you should have kissed me!" She answered back "wasn't sure" I did not answer and slept.

One week later, we had a party as a friend of us was leaving... I asked her if she would come, which she said yes. In the party, I was the center of attraction of the room, still played a lot with girl who were interested in me, and I showed that to her, meaning I showed her I had options. I could see she was jealous actually. We went to another bar with friends, I isolated her, and kissed her. Then we went to another bar again somewhere else and we got all a bit drunk. Many men were tying to get her, but I was confident I had a very solid game.

Finally we left, and I took a cab with her, pretending I was going back home. When the cab arrived at her place, I left the cab as well. She said"no one should ever know about that!". I said "yeah sure!"

We had the best sex I ccould ever dream about and she is definitely the hottest girl I ever touched. The problem is that now she feels bad about it and she is telling me she don't want me to chat with her at the office. Bascially, she wants some air (those are my words). My guess is that she has regrets about what happened... What I did not do well is that I was playing the good and nice beta guy after we had sex... I should just be an asshole from the begiining to the end. One guy learns...

The last text message I sent her was (completely beta I know guys, I don't even know how I could even expect to get girl with those messages I sent before I learnt about the game anyway)... I realise how hard it is to be alpha with someone you do like. The text was:

Still at work... had a crazy day... Look, I had a thought&believe that obviously u r right and must admit wise! I actually do need to regain composure as well. chatting at work is good but not good! and I should blame YOU cause I do like your personality... I'll keep in touch from time to time, not at work though Going to have a drink,

I can't believe I sent that. I am completely DLV to her... admitting she had the last words, and accepting her rules... Well I sent it so it is done. Anyway, I won't text her/call her/talk to her for a while and am afraid I got a one itis... Damn it! I'll ahve to f-close 10 women in the next 3 months!

I do have a question however to whomever has read all this field report, I know a fews steps that are quite consistent to pick up an averaged to high level girl. Now my problem is how do you do to make her stay?

It is funny why the ones you dont want, want more and the ones you don't want, want some fresh air...

Also I can explain to anyone every step to pick up online...

Well, I honestly don't think making her stay will work very much. ehh

Lol, i'm looking for the answer for this, cause I might get into this position in my life.

But the point i think here is One-itis isn't always bad. Everyone needs to get in touch with their emotions from time to time. We all need to feel pain, we all need to feel pleasure, and we all need to cry. It just makes us better people. Lol, I think in this game, one-itis is a good reality check for some of us. It kind of reminds us that there's more to life than just getting with random girls.
In the end, we're really just looking for "the one".
Until she comes by though, the PUA lifestyle is perfect =]

Here's what i suggest, f-close a few other girls, stop talking to that girl.
Then look back at the other girl and write down everything that made her special.
I she's worth it, talk one day. But don't come out as needy. Just chat, don't go through the A1 A2 A3 etc. but just talk normally. If she starts showing IOI's, however, step right into A2, and start negging and teasing her. Make sure there's IOI's, though.

these last couple of months i have learnt the hard way not to turn a one night stand into a relationship, that is not the point of the game its just an unfortunate mishap that every so often you come accross a girl you think is worth giving up the PUA lifestyle for.

a one night stand is called that for a reason, if you want to find a girl dont attempt to f close her, take you time and get to know the person, this way you wont get hurt if things dont work out for you and you wont end up hurting some one, im not sayin a one night stand doesnt when the person doesnt call but at the same time they go out with ther friends and they bounce back fast, wher if you get emotionally attached and things dont work out people get hurt bad, i can assure you after the break up of something you thought was perfect you get a feeling in your stomach like your about to throw up all the time. i wish this on no man

so as i said, let a one night stand be just that and if you want more take your time and make sure 100% that is what you want.

i fell in love with a new fresher at the university and i thought things were perfect, she got the upper hand, and i got hurt, now im back in the game, im wiser, stronger and ready to take on life, women and all its challenges,

i wish you the best of luck dude, and i hope you dont go down the same path as me,

peace love and empathy
the kardinal

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peace, love and empathy

thanks a lot to you two guys!
I'll definitely grew up with this one and will learn from that...
Very helpful replies.

Best wishes,
Gilles

Dude style said in the game that when you game a girl, you risk the chance of loosing her. Dude don't play by her rules, be understanding, just to remind you must maintain Alpha.