1. Sure, she wanted you . . . bad . . . right then She wanted to nurse your balls back to health.

2. LOL. I have. Sometimes it works, sometimes it REALLY embarrasses them.

3. Haha. Well, when I used to wear my necklace, it's silver. I think it's different for each person. How much do you want to "pimp out"? lol.

Well, considering she's your ex, the comfort and attraction issues are slightly different. It depends on what you're wanting from her. I wouldn't take her someplace and buy her a dinner, that's for sure. A walk on the beach would cater to building more comfort and intimacy. So, if you're wanting to go there with her, then that's a great choice. I don't know you're history with her either, so it's hard to say much specifically. I have a feeling you're not looking to just hang out with her and be "best friends". So, maybe you'll want to bring along some cherrys or strawberries for the two of you to "share". So, yeah, go for the beach. It's cheap. It's relaxing. It fosters the mood I'm sure you're looking for. And, if you haven't done that kind of thing with her before, it will surprise her.

I wouldn't suggest bars or clubs at this time, but again, I don't know your history or objectives with her right now either.

HIJACK! Roads, silver silver silver silver silver!!!!!!!

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. . . I've . . . just . . . been . . . hijacked . . . by a girl?

I ended up taking her to a museum of erotic art. I always wanted to go there.

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Sounds good. Hope it worked out for you the way you wanted it to.

I didn't know a better word than appointment I mean on a 1on1 date, "the second day" , a rendez-vous, tête-à-tête.

Thanks for your advice.

Yea, it went well. We later did some of the positions of some art that she really liked.

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Hey Trip

Firstly - This is a nice place you got here, thank you.

I've kinda gone a little overboard with the texts of days in playing it cool BUT, She text us today randomly thinking she saw me in town (falsely) and I asked her out for a drink via txt this wkend to no reply. She's pretty bad with texting back, but she's a POPULAR busy girl, you know, THAT type, and she has exams SPAM. I wanna her to think i'm cool and collected again, (as I had her blushing red like a cherry when I got her no. and texting I made her day that day) and was thinking of calling her sunday for the first time to chat, as i'm v confident on the phone. Going out with her again won't be feasible for her until late this wk I predict. So how should I back pedal this to ask her out for a date later this wk? She's a HB 8.5 and i'd appreciate a clue!

Thanks dude

Hey L.A. I posted this in another thread but i also wanted to get your opinion on it.

I have a question about a sarge im workin on right now. There is this girl who i met and have hung out with at two parties. On both occasions i showed a lot of social proof by working the room and I talked to her and her friends a lot. I got her number, and i've looked at a lot of posts about phone game, but i was just wondering where i should go from here to get her to be my girlfriend because i think im really beginning to like her. Thanks in advance man.

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Hey man. First, welcome to the forum.

I'm curious, why are you picking Sunday to call her? Is that your only day free enough to call? If not, I would wait a few more days before you call. You're already appearing needy and clingy. And, she doesn't need you. You need to show her that you don't need her. When you do call, you only stay on long enough to invite her along for whatever you're doing. She's popular, so don't be a wuss on the phone, don't be needy, don't be whiny, don't be clingy, etc. Be solid. Have a firm mindset, a firm voice, and firm plans that you will be doing with or w/o her. You are inviting her into your world, and she wants to come join a party. And YOU are the party.

GOtcha, nice, firm and direct... cool thanks

You have to engage her emotions in various ways. Push/pull her and her emotions. Make her invest herself emotionally into you. When she does that, she will feel like she's got something invested in you, and won't want to let go as quickly. Banter with her. Keep the playful vibe going. Tease her. If you haven't introduced a sexual frame, do it now, and if you haven't introduced kino, do that as well when you see her again in person.

If you want her to be your g/f, you'll also have to let her into you world slowly, but always give her a piece of you in exchange for a piece of her FIRST. But, don't jump into that deep stuff just yet. Just keep it in mind.

can you follow this link please?

viewtopic.php?p=81387#81387

thanks.

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Thanks man...I appreciate it.

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Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.