Hey I know I got a field rapport topic myself but I just wanted to post my first day of daygaming with my first approaches here in an own topic and I hope many people can learn from this!
I've been on this site for a month or so now. And I have seen ALOT of daygame video's. Especially from Yad and Tom torero. I don't like to watch the daygamers who are just very goodlooking..
So I went to a city today with a guy from the internet who already does this for 2 years. And in my mind I thought this guy would be just as good as Tom Torero.
When we got their and we were walking all of sudden he was gone and he was approaching a two set. He does has alot more guts then me. Everytime he did not approach someone he wanted to he started doing push ups to punish himself O.o.
Now I know I probabbly can't say this.. But when I saw him approaching while I still never did that. I just thought that wow I think my approaches will be alot better!. Because he did not learn anything of pua really he did not look up any video's or checks this forum. And my brain was full with it. And espacially the daygame blueprint is GODLY.
It took me 90 minutes of him pushing me before I really approached the first one. Before I just kept going halfway and then just stop.. And I can say that if you are going to do YOUR first approaches. You really need to get into a flow! So go to a supermarket and talk a bit to the girl at the check out. Say some random things to people. Small thing we went into a store and I bought a bracelet. I asked if I could pay it and she said 'sure'. Then I said ''well I could also just run away with it if you don't mind?'' And after that I asked a 5 set some directions. These small things got me in a small state of daygame flow!
Then I saw this gorgeous hb 8 who was walking towards me. And I finally went for it!
I said: ''Hey sorry can I tell you something really quickly?'' But before I finished my sentence she had already walked passed me.. So got my first blow out and to be honest I just didn't care a single thing!
Now I saw another gorgeous hb 8 who walked passed me a few times already. I let her pass me then did the yad approach. And while I was doing it I just got so bloody nervous and it feels really uncomfortable the Yad approach at first. Especially when you get to the point where you say ''I thought you looked really nice and I just had to come over and say hi to you''. But it is really true if you say that you just gotta transition really fast and all of sudden its not akward to say anymore! I noticed I couldn't really think of an assumption and started asking questions. So I said I had to go and walked away. After that I just hated myself and I could only think of her.
Now since I got so much theory in my brain wich I did not all use at the girl but with it I could really analyze it. And I figured I just had to trow in an assumption so I just started thinking of assumptions I should have said. And I think that if you keep doing this then all of sudden you just know when to say wich kind of assumption untill you have a nice conversation!
I also thought myself why It is really worth it by going true all the hard steps to learn it. If that was my one and only dream girl. Withouth pua and daygame knowledge I would NEVER EVER have even approached her. Even thought I failed I just know that if I keep learning this I will get better and the next time I won't fail at some point when my dream girl walks by. And all the guys who don't know a thing about pua or day game and don't believe in it. Well I can finally laugh them in the face.
Here comes the best part.. After an half hour I saw her again. I went straight up to her and said ''Hey that was not really fair of you!'' You made me so nervous and I am never nervous.. And because of that I did not knew what to say anymore.. she''Why I made you nervous?'' me ''Your earrings! They just made me so dam nervous..'' ( she had big really nice earrings ) I got her to laugh and I now trew in the assumption ''You dress really stylish I think you are in fashion'' Got good response and after that I said '' Lets keep in contact someway!'' And when she agreed I gave her my phone and got her nr. ( She put it in and when I got my phone back I checked it but she wasnt their, I accidently did not save it. So lucklily I checked it when she was still their and got it the next time.. So good thing to check it always!
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I now almost have a date with her! And god.. She is so lovely and it is only because of this daygame that I have met her. So guys if you have never done it.. Get out their and start doing it! Screw indirect and just go direct straiight away. And keep thinking about yad and how ugly he is but he gets so much good responses because he has alot of confidence. And think about all the girls you miss out. And just see it as a nrs game. As long as you do this. If you get blow out 9 times and 1 time you get a nr a date and a k or f close.. Thats AWESOME
If you want me to post the 3rd approach I did let me know. Did not do more. But that one is a nice story as well!
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