| Okay, so the basics. I would say I'm not bad looking (model part time), but naturally introverted, shy, and new to pua other than some good solid reading time. Location is a ski/bike resort during a massive festival.
First my 3 friends and I hit up a local bar for some pool, but the place was dead. Started chatting to everyone there to get in a talkative state, including the manager of the place. After a little while we moved on.
Found the club to be at for the evening and headed there. After waiting in a massive queue for at least half an hour and chatting to some other boys while waiting, we eventually managed to get in. Straight off the bat I was going for gold. Put a massive smile on my face the whole night and looking like I was having a great time, which I think helped hugely. Sack this "looking cool" AFC bullshit that I'd done in the past.
I'll note here I usually hate clubs - can't stand the shitty dubstep music, and not being able to hear anyone I'm trying to chat to!
Managed to pull some hot Canadian within a few minutes of dancing with her which she initiated with "Have you ever kissed a Canadian girl?". I'm new here but I think that one was kinda obvious. Think I kinda fucked it up with her by not really chatting to her, although chatting was neigh on impossible as we were dancing right next to the fucking speakers. She left to go find her friends. Think I saw her milling around a few times.
Started dancing with a cute small blond, who ended up heading to the bar with and chatting to for ages. It was weird, one one hand she seemed really into me, but I got the feeling she'd have stopped me if I'd gone in for the kiss. Got her outside the venue for a couple cigarettes. My friend found us and wouldn't leave us alone, despite me mouthing "Fuck off" multiple times. He has a habit of doing his best to cockblock me whenever I'm with a girl.
Still hadn't kissed her at this point.
Her friends also tried to get her to leave with them but my game was running tight and she said she was gonna stay with me for a bit. Moral of the story - KEEP TALKING AND LAUGHING. Kept teasing her and just having a good time.
Went for a wander through the village and she kept trying to get my shirt off. Even lifted her top up at one point to try and get mine off. Eventually complied (have to give her something, right?). Pretended I was gonna throw her in a river just to get her squealing. Had a little play in the play park on the swings etc. and wandered back to mine. Still hadn't pulled her.
Back at mine the same friend tried his best to cockblock once more but eventually managed to get her upstairs. I jumped in the hot tub hoping she'd join me, but no avail. Afterwords we jumped into bed, but she wouldn't even take her shoes off? Took all night just to get those damn boots off. Some spooning and chatting. Went to show me something on her Facebook and saw it said she was in a relationship! Moment of realisation here as to why I still hadn't been able to kiss her.
At first she tried to claim they were broken up, but later admitted it. Turned her on to fuck with lots of kissing her neck, gentle biting and heavy breathing in her ear. She kept saying we should stop and each time I replied with "Yeah, probably" and kept going, choosing to listen to her body rather than her words. She definitely seemed to have no problem with me running my hands over her tits and ass. I knew she wanted it so badly, but was obviously torn between desire and not wanting to cheat. In the end I didn't manage to fuck her and she left around 5:30am despite my best efforts to get her to stay the night.
Now I'm new to this, so go easy on me - but any suggestions? Help? Anything on how to get round the boyfriend? Hopefully will meet up with her in her city when I'm down there next week, we'll see.
The way I figure is that a huge percentage of hot girls are gonna have boyfriends, and I guess this is just another obstacle I need to learn to get past.
Any good points or bad from more experienced PUA's would be hugely appreciated!
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