Hi,

I am 27 and have a friend who I have known for 12 years. She is now finally single after 7 years. She broke up 6 months ago with her past boyfriend. We are meeting three times a week, each time for many hours. She gives me IOIs(for example tossing and adjusting hair), she is the one who invites me out in about half of cases. If I lean in her, she doesn't move back, if I touch her, she doesn't move back(compliance test).She likes (usually does some ioi) if I give her a compliment and even ALL my friends are saying I have chances and that she is into me.

But last night, I told her what I feel and think about her and that I want us to be together, but she said to me that she doesn't want to have a boyfriend, because she still has problems with herself because of her last boyfriend. There was some uncertainty in her words. Like she is not really sure that she doesn't want me.

The strangest thing is that she still wants me to meet her almost every day. Today she insists that she would like to go to some theatrical show with me(my friend from school is the author of that show). What do you suggest me to do? Do I have chances more than zero? When someone is friendzoned, that women usually doesn't want to hang out with him three or four times a week. Is this really friendzone?

There is also some other HB9 blonde who calls me one or two times a week and wants to hang out with me, go to the mountains etc. She is single for 2 years, so she shouldn't have such problems. A little less compatible with me, but I might have chances. So, is it worth insisting with the above mentioned or you think, the best move is to move to another girl(this blonde for example)?

With the first girl it seems like your in the friend zone, because lets face it if she wanted you more than friends she shouldn't had an excuse to tell you no.
but hey not everything is lost if you want her, you simply need to re-frame yourself in her reality
don't be always available when she wants to hang out with you. tell her u have plans, that you can't hangout.

when you see her greet her like your male friends, side hug with a pad on the back.

listen to her, be polite, nice, like you been, but when you see other girls make her notice that you are checking them out. this will get her to try to get your attention back but don't do it right away
just for a lil while treat her like a good buddy until you find a scenario where you guys are drinking together
and move in for the kiss, but be always the one that ends it
if you kiss her be like "hey this is kinda wrong we shouldnt be doing this"
she will find excuses to why you should kiss her.
either way...
for now try to get at the other girl this will get in her mind that you also have options.

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