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Hey. This morning she tried to call me again(I was asleep &didnt hear the phone calling).. After that she sent a txt 5 messages long lol Here's what she txted: 'If I didnt like u, I wouldnt be sending u all these messages &calling u. I think we should talk this out instead of u just ignoring me 4 no reason all of a sudden. I mean the least u can do is give an explanation of y u dont like me anymore & y u won't even be my friend? I mean it's my birthday(it is her birthday today btw), u could be nice & at least give me that? It kinda hurts that u won't even talk 2 me? u have until 2morrow 2 respond or my deleting ur number so I won't be tempted 2 txt u anymore when all ur going 2 do is ignore me. U could still txt me but I just won't have ur #anymore so u'll have 2 say who it is? I'm just ready 2 give up. I hate when guys ignore me,' '*im deleting'.
&she just sent me another one: '& it'll be awkward if we see each other in ap if we aren't friends cus I won't know if I should say hey or ignore u and keep walking?:/' ap is a place we met at and she visits it often. As well as I.
What do u think about all this? Seems like something is developing there lol But she sounds quite confusing to me at the same time.. Like she says if she didn't like me she wouldnt be sending all these messages and then keeps bringing up the 'friends' thing.
I'm planning on giving her a call but wanna think it through first.I think I wanna make it as short as possible and just stick to the point which is we gotta go out. Now once I call I'm expecting she'll keep bugging me with the questions and I gotta know how to counter those the best way possible. I expect she'll ask:
1. Y didnt u txt me? &my response will be 'Is that the way u start a conversation?'
2. She will keep bringing 1. up. & my response to that would be to ignore it? or smthg better?
3. She'll ask if I like her. What's the best answer to that(cus obviously if I say I do I'll increase her value. again)
4. She'll ask if we r still friends. The answer to that I alrdy know.
Here is the basic plan of the convo(&I realize that u cant really plan everything thru but I think its a good idea to still plan it thru so I wouldnt get off track):
I'll call her, tell her what's up. Maybe throw a neg or 2 in the convo avoiding to answer/countering all of the questions listed above. Then I'll tell her 'Are u free today?' If yes: 'Whats happening in your life today(today cus I kno she cant hang out w/ me on Mon-Thursday besides I'm gonna be busy myself) at (pick a time) ?' If she says she's busy I'll pick another time. If she agrees I'll invite her to movies or smthg.
What do I say if she says she's busy today? Ask her when she's free or tell her smthg like 'k, let me know when ur free hun' followed by 'alright, I gotta go now -I think I'm gonna hit the gym' or smthg
Hey dude,
This is great - The call has become unnecessary at this point.
Just send her the " Hey, you free at 8 tonight? " Or whatever time..
But remember to be illusive.. Don't answer any of her questions or show any personality. Now we're just going to evade until we get a meet up.
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I'll wait until tomorrow then. She might txt me 2night tho. &Btw, what if she tries to text me on fb when I get on there? Keep ignoring? And if I see new messages on there should I open &read them or wait until tomorrow?