Yeah I don't know, I was really drunk. So you think I'm completely fucked? Do I have any chance if I'm completely honest with her?

Anybody else have advice? I guess there isn't much more to say, I'm in a pretty shitty spot, trying to beat the odds. I plan on calling after this weekend.

You need to stop pawing away at her if you ever meet up with her again as it looks as though all you want to do is get into her knickers the whole time. How about being a gentleman and taking her out for a romantic meal? Call or text her and say you've booked a table at ...... and that you'd really like her to come. Buy her flowers and pull out all the stops to be charming, attentive and kind. Women like to be wooed in a romantic way as it shows you care and keep all your macho crap for another day. Show her that you can be a gentleman and not a jerk by getting some girls phone number and she sees you doing it! Would you like it if she was sitting there drunk and got some guys number? Hell no. You need to eat humble pie and if you really want her back, try and be a bit more loving and a gentleman for a while. Good luck.

There is some really good advice here, and there is not only 1 right way...
Good on you for waiting at least a week to reflect on your situation.

Digital_Spy suggested a good way of starting things up again. Don't be discouraged of what she'll say, what you need to show her now is consistency. Tell her you 2 are going for dinner. You have to guide her. If she declines - even if she declines for the whole week, don't be butt hurt and ask her a few days later again UNTIL she agrees - no matter how long it will take you. You have to make this your MISSION!

I think this method might work best for you, considering your state of mind. The reason I say this is because I get the feeling you might stuff things up if you have this mindset of "all on 1 card, my last chance".
Make it your mission to start dating her again!
And please go out talk to other women to protect yourself from over-thinking everything.

Thanks. I like the dinner idea too. So you think I should still go through with the call and then bring up the dinner at some point during it?

I'm been trying my best to talk to new women. I have a date on Sundsy so hopefully that helps and then I'll call her after that.

So you think I'm completely fucked? Do I have any chance if I'm completely honest with her?

you don’t know what you are talking about.

don’t be honest with women, won’t get you anywhere.

read my book before asking me any questions. http://www.mediafire.com/?dzugs3j3k573v57

people gave some decent advice.

1.meet a few women not just one, at least two.

2.don’t make relationships longer than two months, and you won’t be emotionally attached

3.why do you need old shit when you are gold?

4.when you are desperate she is rulling the sittuation. her value for you must be slightly lower than her for you. when you think how to get her back, probably you won’t because her value for you must be slightly less than her for you. you can’t seduce a woman by putting her on a pedestal.

not to mention that she saw you with other women, she already thinks you will meet other women. women don’t like it, they are looking for a reliable husband on a long term. for a short term she might have sex with you, to get strong gene, but not as a husband/boyfriend.

Hehe nice one. I don't recall him asking you any questions.
Bad advice. Don't confuse mystery with dishonesty...


Jordan I think you've had heaps of good advice.. Pick what you want from it and do your own thing. Do not plan too much about what you're gonna do or say and how, just be relaxed and see how it goes. You know she's still attracted to you and that won't change any time soon. Give her a call and arrange for something, there is nothing for you to lose.