Last night i had my worst ever sargin session, ive almost taken a step backwards... i was with my PUA coach, and he even commented saying how it is very uncommon to be this reserved...

Now im a very socially confident person, i have a very high social value in my town as i am a DJ at many of the clubs, and always know people in them aswell as door staff, bar staff and DJs... usually have guys shouting things to me and girls saying hello.

Last night, i took a turn for the worst, for some reason (which ill explain later) i have the worst case of anxeity approach. I really need to know how to get rid of it otherwise i think i may just have to give up on becoming a PUA.

If anyone has any advise of anysort, i would most appricate your views, and any techniques to help bust through your not so average AA,

here, do this but out of town first

its gonna be tough, but remember if you can go through the tough part, the rest is a smooth ride

http://www.realpuas.com/showthread.php?t=31

Happens to me too. One night I'm a rockstar, the next I can't talk to the cute girl at the checkout isle.

I don't know man, life is finicky...roll with the punches and keep sarging.

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I am new to this PUA shit and many a night I feel like giving up too. Don't. I'm in a fucking wheelchair for godssake! Before my car accident I never had a problem attracting girls, now it's like they are AFRAID OF ME! but I keep on sarging because if I want to get back to having no problem getting girls; I have to take the pain. You've heard it "no pain, no gain" and someone else had a great point: One night you're a rock star, the next you can't talk to a HB6 at a grocery store. lol Even mPUA's go through that. Best of Luck man-Lennon

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thank you for your comments, ive decided one more time to take out a nights coaching to an oceana club on wednesday and see how i get on

Naw comon man dont give up. Just keep trying there is no harm in trying. You really have nothing to loose in trying.

Im going to post a few things on AA abit later, as soon as i can get to my p.c.
So look out for them it may help.

(your lucky man you actually got a coach to help ya, i aint got nobody but my word and my balls)

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Don't give up, its a question of time...

thank you guys, always nice to hear support... and the coach isnt cheap! hes £200 a night, but top notch!

please do let me know when you have put up ur AA post mozy

Yeah i agree wit everybody else. dont give up homie!! Gotta learn to crawl before you can walk.

Well if you can afford it, why not.
But think about this. Mystery charged style £250 for a whole weekend course. And mystery was said to be the best PUA in the world.
Is your guy really value for money?


I've only managed to post one so far, but im planning on putting up another 2-3 on AA and stuff.
Problem is it takes me about an hour to type it all out. I'll post some more stuff tomorrow when im back at home.

Im not sure the one i posted will help you much in your current situation. But its a good read.

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mystery now charges in the region of $3000 for a one on one weekender

i know this doesn't really fit in, but about the above comment...

is taking one on one with mystery even worth it now, being as he's all famous and stuff, i don't think he would do as good as he used to, being as his value sky rocketed by being famous and that he won't have to put as much effort as he used to back then.......anyways i dunno.......

wow... had a complete change around 2nite... check out my blog for how it got on

Good man thats what we like to hear. So are you being trained by richard la ruina or another richard? An how much do you recommend watching this documentary 'the secret'? That screaming 'YES' thing sounds alittle crazy to me son. Nice to hear your doing ok now, it only inspire's me more.

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