For the past couple months I have been looking up, learning and soaking information on talking and opening etc. But for once I am actually going with a girl for coffee. Coffee smoffee (bad joke) but this girl I really like. What is just a simple routine or something that does not make this end badly? I know plenty of things but its all for opening and getting the girl to draw attention to you. The attention has been drawn and the girl is now just with me. Also, I'm in high school. I know its a social game, but this time.. Flirting, fluffing and closing is all that I care for.

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No, it's not a good idea to make the whole date a big ass routine. There's just simply no way it will work out as predicted. You just focus on these things:

1) She's going out with you, so she does want you. Keep this in mind and let this be your frame.

2) You two are there to have fun, so keep the boring stuff at home, and be interesting. No fluff talk. Everything you say or do should serve the sole purpose of closing, not getting her to like you.

3) Don't wait for signs, the fact she's there is enough of a sign by itself. Close when you feel like, don't wait for the perfect moment, there's no such thing. ALWAYS CLOSE. No matter what. Remember, you miss every shot you don't take.

4) Having a coffee can be a start of a date, but don't just stick there. It's nearly impossible to physically escalate in that environment. And you just have to escalate physically. When you're finished with your coffee take her somewhere and do something that's not as boring.

5) You're the prize, she has to earn you. Not vice versa. Punish bad behaviour, encourage good behaviour.

6) Listen to your dick more than to your brain. It knows the shit better. When you will have been flirting for a while you should already have an intense vibe. Then all you have to do is pretty much follow it, don't fucking think.

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I think where a lot of guys go wrong on the coffee house date is staying in it too long and looking increasingly more like they have an agenda. You want to keep the girl on her toes and make her think you are this exciting guy who's got shit going on.

Don't tell her ahead of time, but once she shows up be like "Hey, just wanna let you know I have to "X "in about 20 minutes." Make up something that DHV's you, like football practice or meeting some friends. Or pretend to read a text midway through the date and use that same excuse as a reason to cut things short. If you can, end it at a high point. So if she starts laughing at your jokes, grab your phone and do the text thing.

What's good about that strategy is it allows you to keep the date short and sweet and end it on a high note that DHV's you. It also sets up an excuse for another (better) date, since that one was cut short prematurely. I've just heard too many stories about coffee shop dates that started good and trailed off downhill. So keep it short and control the interaction.

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Short and simple answers. Thanks guys

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