It's been some time since my last post and believe it when I say it. I've been busy lol. Well I haven't got with as much girls as I would have liked to and I'm still happy with my results thus far. So on to two days ago a Saturday night party with a dozen people ( 6 hb's). The house was big enough for 30 and out sat off of a gravel road in the county. With neighbors miles apart too much noise..... was simply not a problem for us young dozen ready to party, drinks were on the host and smores were on who could make them the fastest..... okay so enough of this novelty shit lol.... just in the mood.... so HBLatina and I were attracted from first sight. I didn't even use routines until later on but we'll get there, I believe I DHV'd by speaking to my friends there while the people Around us. I could notice they were listening in and watching me talk and joke. I think this is what set me apart from everyone else. I was more the life of the party and starting convos with peeps I didn't even know, I felt great and was I little cocky and HBLatina said I had an attitude, and I told her I knew I was a dick but I know what I wanted then she said she was the same way (ioi). This was while we all surrounded the campfire and she actually took the initiative to move her seat closer to mine (ioi) and then she asked me were I went to school (ioi)....ioi's= 3.... The game is on....as the night went on I played fought the other girls on just about whatever came out of there mouths, not sure if this hurt me or not but hey I had fun. Also comment on being little bit of a dick is bad or good. And what is going too far and what is not enough. Then I threw it out there, my Opinion opener I came up myself, piercings. (if This isn't original let me know so I can give credit were it's due) I was like "okay girls some guys can pull off piercings and some can't, tell me Where's the line in going too far when it comes to guys and piercings." it didn't sound that well soficicated and it worked. 4 HBs fuckin swarmed around my seat as if I were handing out candy. And they all
wanted a piece. Then one by one their worthless opinions were given. ( I take that back I actually am thinking about getting Piercing then I moved to beer pong on the sun room that the campfire that was just outside of. I won a Couple lost a few and ended up referee in the last few, which was a good position to play with the girls. Then things slowed and peeps started hooking up. My bro (not in community, but reading the game) said HBLATINA is into you man its time to make your move. After one last game I was peer pressured to relax next to HBLATINA, hey nothing wrong with a little encouragement by your friends, we made our for quite a while moved to couch in living room made out there and things started heating up. Then owner of house led us to basement. Not sure if this was right but I thought hey push pull right? So I said hey I gotta take a pee. So I went upstairs to piss. Ccame back and she had a bunch of blankets set up on the grounds with pillows in the laundry room. Made me think she might have done this before. And I was honored to be her next laundry honey for the night. So a littleLMR by me just to see the reaction (let me know if this good or not to do and if u have done it) she then said shut up and pulled me down on our lovely love nest. Then it happened. I could not get hard after these ppeeps walked in on us while we were fucking. After that my dick was like not today.(comment because idt it was whiskey dick bit more of a comfort thing. Also the thought of my ex kept creeping in my mind im sure this also played a rule, of this has happened to anyone else or a way to deal with it.) So I just took care of her and made sure she was satisfied and then I had to fucking pee again so I helped her dress and we joined the others for a little bs talk before bedtime. (It you took the time to read this you are truly eeligible for a patience trophy lol okay please comment on what was right and what was wrong. And please shar3 any similar experiences good or bad)
love for life

Lol I can't believe I read through all that.

First of all, good job.

What you experienced near the end is usually what girls experience ALL THE TIME, right before sex. For most girls the location has to be truly private for them to feel comfortable, and this is why getting too hot and sweaty in the club is a BAD idea.

Similarly, us guys are also allowed to worry about people walking in on us.

The issue was a logistical one. The sex location wasn't the best one. Be in a locking room next time. If she's comfortable fucking in an open location like a laundry room and you're not, say so. Suggest going upstairs, or to the bathroom, or for a walk.

My first experience like this was when I had HBFlyGirl back at my place after a house party. We made out at the house party and it was on. Then we came back to my place at the end of the night with two other friends, who were BF & GF. The GF who was HBFlyGirl's roommate encouraged me to fuck her, and it's always a great feeling when a female encourages you to fuck her friend. Means you've earned peer approval! I was standing at my bedroom door with her, escalating, but at that moment my roommates walked in with their whole posse. She got nervous and came back outside to the living room, and shortly after the three of them left. This shows you how sensitive privacy is for sex locations, and how LMR can be completely external for her, stemming not from her resistance to having sex with you, but from her fear of being labeled a slut for being caught having sex with you. What I should have done was gotten into my room sooner, and locked the door. Once in my room, there would have been no more LMR.

Get good at moving towards more private sex locations, and you'll preserve your comfort levels and hers, and be able to truly enjoy the experience.

Good luck.

Hey man thanks alot for the reply. Add you can see your the only one who did, and it totally makes sense the timing and the location has to be ideal for sex. I just never thought this would happen to me and always thought I would be ready to go. Also I was out last night and we tried hooking up in the car and the same thing happened, after I satisfied her I wasn't even aroused. Hahah like wtf is a matter with me, this was with the same girl too.