yes return to better options and nobody would ever say that,i was just using it as an example
^^follow his example:dont be needy and chill out when around women.there is plenty to go around so dont be obsessed with just one

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You need some serious help. Here are some pointers for you.
What? Why are you texting her if you are not meeting her? You need to text for a few days and then invite her out.
This is ok over text if the initial interaction was decent, but way better to do when you are in person.
She's digging for a compliment - don't give her one here since you complimented her on her eyes in the previous text. You should have replied with something cocky/funny.
This is ok, but add to it eg. "You're mission is to meet me at [insert place here] on [insert day here] for [insert meetup idea here]. This message will self destruct in 5 seconds....."
No, no, no. Don't ever write that first text again. You just DLV'd yourself completely, put her on a pedestal and acted like a needy, little, depressed AFC. As for the second text don't ever send that again either unless you have actually met up with the girl. In fact say it in person rather than text.
No.
No. Never ever txt this to any girl ever unless it's a joke.
No. Never text any of this especially the last line.

How old are you? Do you know anything about pickup? I think you should do a lot of reading here on the forum and get out and do lots of pickup. I'm not having a go at you by the way I am just pointing you in the right direction and hoping that you never ever text those needy messages to anyone again. Ever!

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This had me yelling at my screen.

Cringe worthy...

ME: we talked to each other as if we've been friends since 100 years ago. And you suddenly tell me you're not seeking friendship? Then what are we now? Did I ask you to come and marry me? Did I tell you I want a committed relationship? No
Her:I don't think we were that close.
ME: You didn't give a chance for a quick meeting to know each other.
Her:Of course "you have better options. They existed before we began."
ME: That's right. But none of them have many good traits packed into a single box. First weeks were normal for me. But that's what I've realized about you now.
Her:You don't know anything about me. You are wrong, I don't have good traits.
ME: You're good. I'm good. I know you, and I don't need a decade and a million tests to know who you are.
Her:Everyone think they are good people.
ME: You should think the same way.
Her:No that's not how I think about myself.
ME: Why?
Her:No specific reason.
ME: Do you think you are bad? Or you don't have any opinion on your character?
Her:No opinions.
ME: That's not possible. All of us have a self-image recorded on our brains since we were kids. Ok, leave now But we shall remain friends, textual friends. that's what I want. Yesterday you gave me your answer
ME: Textual friends!
Her:What answer?
ME: You said you're not seeking friendship. And I accepted that, but we don't cut everything either.
Her:What do you gain from a textual friendship?
ME: I'm not seeking gain or profits! You mean whats the point of continuing this?
Her:No, don't get me wrong. I mean you boys have some special demands from a friendship.

Ok, I just called her after reading her last msg and we started talking for the second time. She talked and acted as if nothing has happened. As if it's the first time we are talking to each other. Her first answers were short and mumbling yes and no and that's right etc. Eventually she got comfortable and when I was trying to say good bye, she tried to keep the conversation going! I was right, She is a super shy pessimist and has trust issues with us guys!

Phone Call

ME: So what the heck is a textual friendship. What does it mean?
Her: I didn't say that! You said it.
ME: Ah, yeah. I created that term. Listen, I don't have any special demand from you. All I'm saying is, we shouldn't cut all contacts so suddenly. Step by step.
Her: You are persistant, that's very Interesting.
ME: Yeah, my sister is so grumpy and heartless. I need you to fill this void. You are kind, romantic and full of emotions.
Her: *laughing loudly* That's right.
ME: So what's your job. I heard you talking about selling a house when we first meet. I'm an architect also. At least we could be good colleagues!
Her: *Laughing* Er, no. I work for an ad company.
ME: And what's your age exactly? Some times I think you are an old mama, some times I think you are a little high schooler. haha,
Her: *Laughing* Why?
ME: With the way you react in your txt msgs.
Her: *Giggling* 23.
BLA BLA BLA BLA

ME: AAAAAAhhhh. Communications feel so much better when done via voice calls. Text messages are garbage, and they cause all kind of troubles and misunderstandings. Delete all of my messages now.
Her: No, I keep them all. * Giggles*
ME: Yeah, for future reference, lol.
Her:Right.
ME: Ok, from now on we will only talk. No more SMS deja vu. that's a completely different interaction and feels much better, right?
Her: yeah.

BLA BLA BLA BLA

Needless to say, she still hasn't told me "Sure I'll be your GF"!

Where is it going? What are your thoughts guys? What do you think antic?

I can't believe she answered. Your text conversation and phone conversation is really bad. Your purpose of calling/texting should be to meet up with her. You should be demonstrating higher value, not asking her "what are we now?".

I think you should give this girl up and go read some PUA books and watch some movies. You have to learn how to stop acting so needy.

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Actually there is no reason to give up. Will call her next week to see where it will go. Will update this thread then.

This has to be trolling......

Either give me an opinion on the situation, an analysis, an advice. Or just stop trolling with vague mumbo jumbo like "You are needy, be an alpha!"

I know I like her and I am a bit depressed. So what's a practical suggestion for this situation?

Why? You've gotten lots of opinions and advice in this thread. You're not listening to it and keep doing exactly what that advice is telling you not to do.

but there is a reason to give up, FRIENDZONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.she has not complemented you or given any ioi's.
my opinion is she is gonna friendzone you and my analysis is her only interest in you is to gain a male friend.
your depressed because you know she isnt demonstrating interest in you.
follow antic and drop her bro,trust me i was in your situation and it went horribly wrong

• 1:forget her
  2.rethink and relearn your game
  3.learn from your mistakes (too needy)
  4.go out and meet new chicks
  5.get laided

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"You are persistent, that's very Interesting"

What did she mean by this? Is she complaining or complimenting?

well it is a IOI and you said she did laugh at your humour.

you can go either 2 ways:

• >1:continue with her as she seems to generating small amounts of interest
  >2.listen to everyone on the forum post and just drop her bro

your choice man

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listen man, I think you've taken everyones sometimes harsh words well, but you didn't hear what they said. Have another read through everything that was said to you and LITERALLY take notes.
Write it down somewhere safe and study it. Read The Game by Neil Strauss. It gives you some tips and it's really inspirational!

Something that concerns me about you dude. Are these other options real? If so, get on it. If not, it seems you have one-itis. It's a fast road to getting hurt. You remind me of myself years back. I used to get obsessed with one woman, and get hurt. But nothing gets you through it like getting with other women.

I'm glad you've discovered this pick up stuff. Now get to work!

Good luck

Man, I'm nowhere near an expert but... How the hell did you manage to beg her for an answer after four messages in a row?
Especially after admitting on here you were writing too much and seemed too needy...

She felt on a pedestall pretty much immediately and lost interest.

No worries, as someone else said many more girls to meet. Forget this one, she probably won't come back but if she wants to, it's got to be her doing so and not you looking to start this all over again (even presuming your text game improves enormously...).

You are not listening to any advice. You want validation for your actions, someone to tell you that it's a good idea to be persistant.
You won't listen to anyone that's fine. Something you have to learn by yourself. This will be a friendzone situation soon (if that). And that will suck, especially when she tells you that she's now dating a real man so you can fuck off.