she stopped replying after this... I and blow myself out sometimes by wanting things too bad and over doing stuff..

I had so much fun we're going again next weekend...

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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 19:56


damn!what?

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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 8:55 PM


alright alright, so i was in the air for like 3 second but it felt like longer because everything stopped the birds stopped chirpin I couldnt here anything and I never went so HIGH off a ramp before; so I lost control in mid-air and landed wrong and I hit the cold wet snow pretty hard but guess what... (but here was my mistake, I went to far with the suspense building, I already told the conclusion why do I need more suspense? "guess what" just blew my game out and showed the girl that I was trying to game her, girls aren't stupid they notice that type of stuff and an extra pause just ruined the moment and made it seem like I was "gaming" therefore I lost the set...thats a lesson for you new guys if your good at something don't over do it, I like you wanted to be "GOOD" at this at all cost so I fucking over do things on occasion to try to "FORCE"
things to happen. Just bide your time and don't over do things...)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 19:50


lol i kno jk but the story...? (so okay she backed down)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 8:48 PM


lol haha your such a BOSSY little girl haha lol jk!!!!
(I over did the lol's and ha ha's but I got the job done)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 19:44



haha fine i just won't write back till your done w/ your story ok?! so jus make sure u get it ALL in this next message (she tried to set some rules here a lil shit test)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 8:43 PM


yeah, but let me finish the story your so "THE INTERUPTER MISS LADY"
(this was good, it gained control of the set and teased for attraction)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 19:42



lol i bet u were scared at 1st!
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 8:40 PM


HELL YEAH I WENT DOWN THE RAMP! lol
( I went with an over exaggerated excited response to add value)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 19:38



lol okay then i take that back.yeah u go hella fast when ur snowboardin!lol did u go down the ramp?
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 8:36 PM


TOO HIGH FOR ME? nothin to high for me sweetey but of course I went up and lookin down on the hill I was LIKE GOD DAMN! it was SO FUCKING HIGH! so we dropped in and all the snow and scenery was going by so fast, i will admit i wanted to just stop but I didn't know if anyone was behind me so I just kept goin so anyway so we approached the ramp and it looked twice as big as it did from the "ski lift" I Was like OH SHIT!!!!...lol
(stopped for suspense and talkd about emotions)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 19:28



damn!it was prolly too high 4 u!! but i would sooooo go!!!(shit test its dounds like she's sayin shes tough and i'm a punk)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 8:25 PM


Well it was my first time snowboarding on a real mountain but I been on hills and man made ramps before, so anyway I got good quick so my homiegirl who is damn near a pro told me to try this hill with her it had some ramp of "GAP" at the bottome, so I was like yeah and I got on the ski lift and we went so high up the hill my hEART started BEATING SO HARD! but first what would you do if someone asked you to do this?...(did some dhv routine that I made up on the spot)

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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 19:18



danq i always wanted 2 go snowboarding!! what happened tho?
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 8:15 PM


I went snowboarding with a few friends, and homegirls...it was so cold up there but I had so much fun it kicked Ass! but I had a crazy accident, it was so crazy...(kept the end vague again building even more suspense)

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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 19:10



lol & what made it such an adventure?
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 8:08 PM


I had an adventure the other day...lol(kept it vague for suspense)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 19:05



lol yeah true & there faster too & no matter how fast u go...u won't get a ticket!lol but ..what?
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 8:00 PM


LMAO! yeah but carpets are more fun, lol but do you know what...(building suspense)

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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 18:50



awww coffee at starbucks mmmm sounds great!well u still got ur car [hint hint] lol.but yeah i'd show u alllll aroud cali i loove it there! (she liked that)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 7:48 PM


I'd come visit you so we can talk over coffee at startbucks, about stuff and that would be fun! but after that we would go to california cuz I haven't been there yet!lol (i'm good)

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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 18:46



lol ma badd. im a "fun little space alien" huh?lmao but what?
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 7:44 PM


I already told you great!Nah but your a fun little space alien. lol but anyways if I had an alladin magic carpet your know what i would do with it...(hit her with another fun tease, then moved into a future projection)
(built suspense)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 18:39



oh thats good!!so hows ur life goin?( another qualifier, you get alot of these on myspace, huh?)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 7:37 PM


nah I don't have a sweet heart right now my last girl and I got along great though(yeah I built more status and said i'm available incase she wants to get back with me)

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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 18:34


haha!!!y u say that ( i had to answer this qualifier)

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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 7:32 PM


lol your a little forward( I didn't want to open pandoras box)

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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 18:28


yeah=] & thank u!! sooooo who u talkin 2/datin now?(she was wanting to tell me she's n a relationship, by me answering and then returning the question, another shit test that says "I got a new life stay out of it")

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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 7:21 PM


Thats sounds great it seems like your doing good,but yeah I thought I would say wats up for a second cuz I think your a chill girl
(so I give more value to keep the convo going)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 17:36



i go 2 lifeskills now n jus everything in my life is perfect (she trying to say stay out of her life now that she has it fixed)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 6:21 PM


where do you be going and what makes it PRETTY GOOD!?!?

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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 15:43



its actually pretty good! always on the go (vague answer, so I look too requalify)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 4:23 PM


hows your life?...( i realized that since I started the fight that ended our relationship I didn't want to qualify, its like saying sorry)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 14:29



lol u should jk i actually think it was funny but neways, thats good!what college u go 2? (trying to qualify me again.)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 3:25 PM


lol stop being so sensitive yyour almost making me feel bad, but my stay out here is great i'm having loads of fun ( I hit her with a tease and built status for myslef)

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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 13:39



cause i thought it was kinda weird that u added me after that 1 day at the mall it was kinda rude u know but its koo now i was jus wonderin( lol shes funny)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 2:36 PM


y?
(so I thwart that qualifier, and reversed qualified her)
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From: Jalyna♥
Date: 20 Jan 2008, 13:08


lol okay jus makin sure so how's college? (trying to qualify me before I do her)
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From: I cant feel my face!
Date: Jan 20, 2008 1:47 PM


lol not really your a cool girl I thought I'd add you again (Gave value)
From: Jalyna♥
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Date: 20 Jan 2008, 09:50


uhmm thanks 4 the add i guess i thought u "hated" me remember
(conversation with an old girlfriend)

Talking online always has a tendency to make things seem different than what they were originally intended to be. It seems to me you came off a tad eager.

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Remember, if you're not the leader, the view never changes.

You showed way to much effort. If you add up all of what she wrote, and all of what you wrote, there will be a big difference.

You never DHV online. Do that in person.

Just a few quick teases and then move into phone game. Then into actually meeting.


She started the thread right?

Thanks for the add I GUESS…. (You should not have let her get away with this statement)


lol not really your a cool girl I thought I'd add you again - (You gave her to much value. She took value from you with the ‘I guess’ and then you gave her value.
I would have said.

Lol. I didn’t but I may start since you only ‘guess’ that you are thankful.

That would have changed the entire conversation. Tease her a bit more, and then go on from there.

One other comment.

The following is the best part of this entire thread. You qualified her, she agreed and accepted it. Perfect…. And then….

yeah=] & thank u!! sooooo who u talkin 2/datin now?

lol your a little forward next time do not put the qualifier in there. You are forward...

haha!!!y u say that

You broke frame right here….
At the very minimium, you should have said….

I do not disrespect people I am hanging out with. Or just ‘Some people’……

nah I don't have a sweet heart right now my last girl and I got along great though

This could not have been worse. If you got along great, why are you still not together?

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

from PUA to AFC to PUA to AFC ect.

Stop saying lol girls use lol about 4 times as much as guys do so everytime u said that showed LBJF and dlv by picking up on her frame. This went on way too long you should tease her like I got to go later shell be like the hell. Not enough negs. Way too many reponses make her wait like shes doing too you right now.
You lost your frame everytime she said and then what. Almost like she told you to tell her. You should have responded by saying. You know what my homiegirl just called wait for me will you thanks.
Saying that somone is better than you at snowboarding then you was DLV. Especially when you made yourself out to be new at it. First thing girls think when they see that is poser. The same thing happend to me and my guitar.
Bossy girl, overflirting. CF How cute you think your the boss
She sets rules dont follow them. I did this one where instead of calling her an interrupting lady (too polite) i called her the interrupting cow she said what that and I just replied by saying mooooooo

"lol i bet u were scared at 1st! "
y did u let her get away with this
your response "Way to go Sherlock you would be to"

damn!it was prolly too high 4 u!! but i would sooooo go!!! a neg and she out alpha'd you

"naa youd probably wet your pants while your that high"

I didnt say bust her chops all the time you were too AFC nice too her you allowed her too much control

to get her attention back do what I do and you can never go wrong
send her an message in the middle of the night
"OH CRAP YOULL NEVER BELEIVE WHAT HAPPENED TO ME, THIS IS SO SERIOUS"

she message back saying somthing like what

you message back
"how did you get this I thought I was sending it to my homiegirl about the greatest event of my life, I must have been so exited I messaged you by mistake"

she'll say
lol (god I hate This word) you should be more careful but what happened

youll say
"this is way to good to put down on computer I cant descibe it in a paragraph"

either get a phone number off this or meet somplace the problem is your going to have to make up a story or use an important past experience of your life and control your frame neg her dhv then comfort
say somthing like
you have to wait Im going to have a threesom with Linday Lohan and Jessica Simpson 'drools'

be more cocky your the man and make sure she knows it

im a little too critical here for that im sorry

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