okay. im still kinda new to the whole pua methods. so im not sure what kind of choices i have right now for taking this girl out on a first date. i have not asked her out yet but i can tell shes totally into me and im waiting to talk to her in person this week in school and i want to plan something for the weekend.

the problem is its sooo damn cold here that im limited to what i can do. single digits and lots of snow right now. i really feel like the first date should be just hanging out with some friends, like i would invite her and a friend to do something casual but i have no idea what i should do. i dont want to just go to a movie or a party. but idk, it seems like theres nothing to do in this shitty town. i live in a small city in minnesota

maybe im just not thinking of all the possibilities. can anyone give me some ideas that im missing?

well this usually doesn't work BUT if it does this means she is ready for sex, INVITE HER TO YOUR HOUSE FOR A MOVIE!!!...

i dont think thats gonna happen right away. we still barely know each other , weve only talked a couple of times and she messages me online. im going to get her number for sure but i want to make sure i have an idea on what to do this weekend first.

lol, GoodAtThis, only if all girls were like the ones you describe.

anyways, what have you read so far, or how much PU material have you seen?

either way, i always try to go ice skating on the first date, if that doesn't work go to the mall, not just to take her to a movie, but to go shopping with her, and bounce around. if you can't do either one of those, see if there is a big event coming up, and if any of those don't work, go to starbucks and bounce around till you find a place where you can make out with her.

I'm with lucky man on this one. Take her to a place, such as the mall where there are as many as possible. Open as many sets as you can to show her your social value. If you can DHV, everything else will go smoother, don't forget to include her in your sets though. She might think that you are just blowing her off and you will get stuck in the LBF's zone.

im feel i have a good sense of what im doing as far as pua methods. i really understand a lot of it. and i have already employed a lot of the tactics and used dhv. she knows my value and shes the one kinda chasing me right now. she has been messaging me. and shes not out of my league at all. shes probably an hb 7.5 or 8. and isnt too much in the popular crowd so im not afraid of her having more value than me. ill get to talk to her in school this week and ill number close her. but i want to make sure i have a plan. i dont want to just leave her hanging for a while.

the mall here sucks ass. so that def wont work. & i feel no need to demonstrate higher value through opening more sets with her. im not worried about that.

but theres a local ski hill, its pretty big and is popular for tubing. its always been fun and the girls i talk to seem to like it. go tubing for a couple of hours and then go into the warming house for some hot cocoa. then maybe back to someones house to chill?? its supposed to warm up by the end of the week actually.

what do u guys think?

That is an excellent plan. It will give you a chance to isolate her and then get the physical interaction that she is craving. Watch out for the last minute resistance! Let me know how it goes.

Since I live in the dorms this is easy...

ok that should work then. not too sure about hanging out at someones house after. more than likely there will be someone at my house and we wont want to hang out there anyway. so probably wont have to worry about lmr on this first date. but who knows