What's up, fellas? I've been making tons of headway with my inner game. Girls are usually very attracted to me and I've been doing no fap for more than 4 months now and the confidence boost is unreal. As you can see from my previous posting, I used to be a HUGE beta. I like to think that's not the case anymore, but I digress. I'm here to talk about an issue that may not be related to inner game, but has certainly been disturbing it. Me and my ex broke up a while ago and she was involved with some dude that she cheated on me with. Apparently they just kissed, but who knows the truth anyway? I want to move on completely as I'm getting tons of attention from females and I'm very confident in myself but I feel like I need to resolve this in the best way possible. For the longest time, I felt like I needed to kick the kid's ass in order to teach him a lesson. From what he's told me, he never knew we were going out, and my memory's too blurry to verify if he's telling the truth, although my ex told me that he's a "pathological liar." I think the most prudent response is to just leave him alone, and if he gets in my face, to take him out. Otherwise, if I see him just be cool and pay him no mind. Basically ignore him. He's made an attempt to apologize to me and even wants to workout with me. I'm not sure if I'm okay with that. As always, if you guys need more info on the matter, don't be afraid to ask.

Is your inner game ignoring the fact that SHE cheated on you?

What do you get out of beating a dude up? SHE made the decision.

I was thinking the same thing. Even if it would teach him a lesson, I wouldn't know for sure if he knew we were together at the time, and it might not really be my place to teach him a lesson anyway. The only question is how to react to seeing him i public. He wants to be on good terms with me. I'm not sure how to approach this. Maybe an aloof, yet friendly approach wold be best? Any suggestions?

You present a problem you already solved: you don`t give a fuck actually.

Here is how I would handle this: I would live my normal life and if the dude comes along and tryies to play it cool I would give him a deep look in his eyes and say: I won`t be giving you shit about this, but you have to understand me if I don`t make friends with you after what you`ve done.

Then simply walk away and dude will get the messege.

Live simple. You have everything you need to be happy, don`t search for troubles when there`s an easy way out.

I understand the urge to want to kick his ass.

BUT you don't seem to be considering the fact that SHE also participated in this, she kissed him too. It's not like she is completely innocent.

Unfortunately it is the tendency for us to want to have a go at the guy. Going and getting in a fight with him isn't going to help things except bring you trouble. It's better for you to just move on and be with these other girls. It's awesome you are much more confident now and have alot of attention... what if the best revenge was moving on and living the best life you can?!

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My no-fap is about to reach the second month now. Improvement noticed too but I've been on beating off and porn watching for about 10 years now that it takes probably longer than average to heal, but I won't get back to that murky past for sure.

Look mate, teaching him a lesson in the way I'm thinking of now may lead you to jail, and there's no way you can sarge behind the bars.

Of course, it's bitter to see your ex cheating, but meanwhile why don't you hit one of the girls who gave you attention?

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