The story:
Thursday night -out with the boys which means heavy drinking and lot of fun. Things start to fall apart some hours after midnight, at the bar ordering my #?? beer I start talking to a girl. An hour later we end up back at my place in bed. I have a little fun with her but then noboner.jpg. She gets a little dissapointed because it was ''my turn'' to have fun and i just tell her i had a little too much to drink - no biggy. Wake up in the morning around 10 (goddamn summer sun) about 5-6 hours sleep. Cuddle her again but still noboner.gif. After some time we get out of bed and she leaves, kiss her goodbye and say ill tak to her later. Find her on facebook and we become friends. It's saturday now and havent talked to her - I suck at non verbal messaging.

The Question:
How to handle the situation and where to go from now on?

I know it stupid to drink and do girls but i was just planning on having fun with the guys that night. This isnt the first time it has happened and i bet it wont be the last (drunk me is quite succesfull). I bet theres alot out there that encounter the same problem.

Best bet is to decide before hand weather or not you wish to drink that night. If not sure limit yourself to two drinks and see what happens. If you decide to drink however I would say in the situation you described get something to eat on the way back and some water sober up and you should avoid any trouble in bed.

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Leave her better than when you found her...

Any man who feels like he needs alcohol to talk to and pick up women I feel honestly are pathetic..so are you saying that any setting without alcohol your just awkward as fuck around women? If so you should work on that, and try to curve your alcohol dependence.

Well in the mean time enjoy picking up women drunk and embarrassingly not be able to fuck them!

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On a Mission to be one of the DMV's BEST PUA!!

SPAM id - xhandlessx

If you are comfortable with the woman, stick your flaccid dick on top of her and work to get it hard. She would rather be fucked that night by you (if she likes you) than not, so whether you are rock-hard to begin with is not such a big deal... the important thing is that a story that ends well is a story with a good ending, get my drift?

I feel like the answers are made without you guys actually reading the OP. All i've gotten is just bullshit about how i shouldnt drink alchohol if i intende to fuck girls - like i didnt know that. To quote myself: I know it stupid to drink and do girls.
If im out hunting i chill with the alchohol and thereby avoid the problems.

The whole point of the thread was the if scenario. If you happen to be in the situation after her leaving in the morning. How do you go from there assuming you got a way to contact her (number, facebook, ...).

What i ended up doing was writing her on facebook:
``what up´´ `` what wild stuff are you doing on a saturday night?´´ (it was saturday night).
She was going to a warm-up party and then to find a place in the big city to party. I told her i was more in the mood for a chill night with a movie perhaps - she responded positively to the chill movie night so i just told her i would be watching a movie and if she wanted she could swing by. She did instead of going to the big city and bang da boom end of story.
Wow, thats one hell of a strawman you put up there kiddo. Get on my level before you start talking smack to me and good luck with your mission you are most likely going to need it with that attitude.

Just text her and say "still wishing I could have fucked your sweet body. Alcohol sucks. Let me know when you want to hang out and party again."

Gauge her response, go from there.

Oh and nothing wrong with having a couple of drinks when you are out to get a bit loose. Just don't get drunk, it's fucking dumb and a massive error (that I am seriously battling with, I've now got a no shot rule unless its with a girl I am likely to be hooking up with and then it's only one).

I will ignore the issue and move forward.

I live a similar situation last weekend but i got a bonner, but then i feel nothing and all went down

Cliche but if the problem persist, see your doctor. Seriously.

By reading what you say, I think women look too good to you when you are drunk. You are tricked that they are decent in the club, then you wake up the next day with them or can't get a boner with them and you realize they look like shit when the alcohol is gone. My suggestion is stop drinking or be happy with bottom of the barrel appearance women, or get a buddy who can steer you in a direction you are compatible.

It's not the alcohol man, women put a ton of effort into looking good when they go out. Even sober you are going to wake up next to something not as good, unless they are naturally georgeous, which is rare.