me: you're going to that festival tonight right? (wanted to know if i could make other plans) x
her: no not tonight x
me: alright, so you're comming over? after work tho x
her: yeah sure i gotta get up early tho so can't sleep over x
me: no problem x

hours later

her: still want me to come? otherwise i'll just go home now. (from work) x
me: sure, not home yet tho, 30 mins. x
her: another time then maybe..you tell me?

here's me being a bit more unavailable;
me: yeah oke we'll see eachother friday, good?x
her: thought so! have fun! x (she thinks i'm with girls most likely or just drinking)

do I respond?

This sounds like a FWB convo, What is with the 'x' at the end of each?

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its kinda confussing messaging where you dont really know what is going on.

the 'x' stands for a kiss.

---rest of the convo---

so she ended with: Thought so! have fun!x

me: thought so?
her: yeah, that u had plans yeah ima make plans with someone too in that case
me: i told ya i was gonna be home in 30 mins. (ignoring the fact she's makin plans)
her: you should read your text! yeah friday then..
me: didn't look like u wanted to come so i figured ye friday.
her: mhmm yeah i'm sure that's it
me: aa don't be like that, if you wanna come, come.. i'll be home in 5 x
her: i don't want 2 anymore!
me: haha ur such a schoolgirl! get ur fine self over here so i can hold ya.

no response so far, man lol, this immaturity level goes beyond..

Figured, but at the end of every sentence? A little over the top?

Is she FWB? G/F? Random?
That's where I would have ended it, til the next conversation.

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we where FWB before, but we couldn't deal with the fact that we could see other people.
the chemistry we have is unreal, we're together now.

and I guess so, its european, its come to a point to if you wouldn't reply with an 'x' or an '<3': something's wrong. (if you're in a relationship that is)

You couldn't?
She couldn't?
Mutual?
The quickest way to fuck up the passion of a FWB relationship.

As far as the message banter goes I read it as, scheduling for sex in FWB mode, it did not work out in your favor, so you started to get a little needy, it fucked over the mood.
So, let her think somethings 'wrong'. Let her WONDER! Girls love to wonder.

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This is where it went a bit wrong in my opinion. Yes, being unavailable and not needy is a good thing, but when a chick is offering to come to your place it's pretty much a sealed deal and you don't need to act unavailable at this stage.

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/\ Oh and absolutely this.

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ye the feeling is very much mutual that we couldn't see other people.

as far as me trying to be more unavailable, duely noted. it wasn't a sealed deal tho, she kept asking again
and again 'you sure u want me to come over?' 'i won't stay long tho..ok?' 'still ok for tonight ye? maybe another time?' she keeps thinkin im 2 busy for her or that i always have plans (wich is good). anyway i'm not gonna keep answering yes i want you to come yes its still fine, don't wanna sound as if she HAS to come over for me to have a good night, I invited her once, that should be enough. so I was like fine & texted 'okay we'll see each other friday'

anyway the last text seemed to work and she did end up comming over AND sleeping over aswell, GET IN.

thanks for the feedback

learn to read between the lines buddy

she wanted to sex, don't be aloof when a girl is basically propositioning you for a booty cal

doesn't matter, i'm the reward, she's not. Not gonna keep re-assuring her 4x in a few hours that i want her to come over, one invite is enough. And I invited her, not otherwise.