I've been using this opener for a while now, now I know most puas think it's a capitol sin to buy a drink, but it might work for you. I prefer the situtional opener 100 times more than canned. It might work for other people but so far it hasn't for me.

I think sitting at the bar is the best way to meet girls. According to Gunwich girls that are naturally attracted to you will unconciously get close to you.

Even if I'm not sitting at the bar. I'll see a hot girl that I want to talk to and I'll stand right next to her at the bar. I'll ask my bartender for a drink, and most times without even looking at her, I'll tell her that we're taking a shot. Or if she's standing next to me and she hasn't ordered her drink, I'll say I'll have a Jack Daniels and turn to her very quickly and say "what are you drinking" and order that as well.

With the shot, most of the time they will take the shot. The cool thing I've noticed is that they start talking to you, you really don't need an opener. It will be natural. For extra measure high five her after the shot. Now i've opened girls who don't drink with the shot opener. They will actually start talking to me and not let me go, and then I take their shots lol.

With the drink. I've never had a drink rejected (of course) but the trick to this opener is that I don't talk to them. I just order the drink, I don't smile, I barely look at her, and if she doesn't talk to me (rarely happens) I leave. Leaving doesn't mean failure, most of the time they won't let you leave. But if they do they will definitely be intrigued, and you have an easy set to open up later during the night. Or if it's a bar with regulars or a small town where people often frequent, you planted a seed for the next time you see her.

WHY I think it's alpha.
First of all, I dont' ask if she wants the shot or the drink, because I don't care if she wants it or not, I'm in a sense telling her what to do(leading). My body language isn't beta. Shoulders high, chest puffed, taking space.
I think that this opener displays confidence, leadership, and higher value.
TIP: When you arrive at the bar, ask what the shot specials are, every bar has them. This way when you order the shot you don't ask what she wants, you already know you're getting the cheap shots.

This is just an opener, that I've had success with, from the opener run your game.

Savateur

Dude... You mean to tell me that you are going to approach 10-15 girls a night and buy them all a drink? Even if they are cheap shots... Say 5 bucks a piece. That still means you are spending 50-75 dollars a night, going out 3-5 nights a week... You are talking about some serious coin on girls you don't even know. The whole point of "not buying a girl a drink" is if you are out with a friend of yours... Are you just going to buy him a drink just because? Probably not. Maybe go round for round... But why would you do that for a girl who you don't even know?

Second, you really shouldn't drink when you go out. The way to get good at game is by gaining reference experiences. How are you going to remember what happened, what you did right, where you went wrong, etc. if you are sitting by the bar hammered? The best way to open any set you want is to just be social and be talking to everyone. The guy who is talking to everyone is the guy that everyone wants to talk to. The guy who is sitting by the bar by himself is the guy that creeps everyone out.

Method, i'm with you. That's absolutely not all I do. The reason I posted this one is that has worked for me in the beginning. It still works, I don't use it everytime but I still use it. I posted this to see if it helps at least one guy get laid tonight, who's afraid of approaching. Sometimes, when you're new AA is a huge problem. To me going up to a girl and asking "who lies more" is stupid. I am sociable with everybody at the club and I do meet a lot of people. But it has been a progression.

Second, you really shouldn't drink when you go out. The way to get good at game is by gaining reference experiences. How are you going to remember what happened, what you did right, where you went wrong, etc. if you are sitting by the bar hammered? The best way to open any set you want is to just be social and be talking to everyone. The guy who is talking to everyone is the guy that everyone wants to talk to. The guy who is sitting by the bar by himself is the guy that creeps everyone out.[/quote]


Good call on this one though! I always end up with a bunch of numbers at the end of the night. Still got my sticking points.