Hey guys and girls.

Before i get stuck into my topic. I am only writing this because its something that i rarely see people do, maybe its my city. This is not some secret and its not rocket science. but it works for me. My success has a lot to do with the places i go to and the women i target but there is no reason you cant apply this to everyday sarging.

Here are a few things that i consciously do that i find successful and often receive compliments on

1. if im leaning on the bar with my forearms, i will tense my lats slightly (BE SUBTLE). shows good muscle size and emphasises that V shaped back, chicks dig it.

2. Try to drink with my left hand so that my right hand is warm when i introduce myself to people. You'll be surprised how many people dont do this. Also. Seriously. You should have a firm handshake. If you have a weak grip then you have already lost my respect and Im not even joking.

3. When waiting at the bar (providing its not stupidly busy) I will always let the person or people who were waiting before me order their drinks first even if the bartender comes to me. This works on a number of levels. showing that you are a gentleman.

4. This is an extension of tip 3. When it comes time to order your drink(s), Be super polite, bartenders deal with shit people all the time so it is a refreshing change. Example: on nights that i am not drinking i walk to the bar and say "may i have a glass of water please" with a smile. This shows that i am nice, polite and sober, therefore not going to cause trouble/builds a rapport with the bar staff.

...And when I go sarging and bring a girl back to the bar to get drinks i will 9/10 times get served immediately and have even been given cheap/free or generously served drinks because of my previous good impression (works better with female bartenders). Girls love the power that i hold by getting instant service. Big DHV.

Let me know your thoughts or constructive criticism (not about my spelling or grammar)

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Good manners ARE important. Gentle-men ARE attractive to woman.

However, BE CAREFUL GUYS, there is a HUGE difference between being a gentleman and being a weak, submissive puppy... Treat people with respect, but don't be overly-nice. That's the key!

Good post Mr Ben!