Hey guys quick question (sorry for my bad english as it's not my mother tongue) :

I'm 23 and I have a huge problem : Making male friends. The M3 model gave me the tool to attract/make friends with almost any women I meet in social siuations, thanks to its reliable evolutionary psychology foundation and that's cool.

However I'm terrible at connecting and making friends with guys despite my efforts. I tried almost anything : being funny, DHVing, teasing ... Now don't get me wrong I usually have fun with them but I really feel like something is missing that would make them think "damn this guy is cool I wish I could hang out with him again".

So in order to keep it simple I will formulate my question like this :
"We know thanks to the MM, how to take a woman from the stage where she has no interest in you whatsoever to the stage where she just digs your company and affection (via a set of rules/principles like S&R value, comfort, body language...). But how could we use another model to make guys that have no interest in you to want to hang out with you ? What are the friendship switches ? "

As a side note I'm absolutely not gay, the reason I'm asking this is because I've seen a couple of guys enter my group and shine so much (whitout even DHVing) that when they left the whole vibe collapsed and they were kind of missed. I wanna be that kind of guy.

Hey mate in my opinion you're worrying too much about techniques, techniques help enhance your game but they alone don't make you an interesting person. You being a cool interesting fun social guy is what makes ppl wanna hang with you. I'll give you an example of my situation I was new in a city and had no friends so one night I went out to this sports bar. The waitress came up we talked a bit she noticed my accent wee bit of AUS. I told her I was new in town we talked about that I asked her for directions to a place I was looking for it was a good social time. The next time I was there was the night of the Mayweather vs Cotto fight (I don't know if you follow boxing at all) but I was talking with the bartender making predictions ppl were kinda listening in before long I had a group around me I was holding the convo. Since then I am a bit of a regular I walk in lightly flirt with the waitresses slap fives with the waiters shoot the shit with the bartenders. Also keep in mind I don't have the greatest social skills either but I am an interesting person and I just went out and made the most of the social skills I do have. In short I think if you just have to work at talking to ppl and getting more comfortable with that. I am sure you have lots of interesting stories that will keep ppl engaged or atleast have interesting points to add to a convo that will make ppl take notice and say this guy is cool. Anyway hopefully that helps a bit good luck!

Well let's put it this way : you meet 10 guys in a social situation, and out of the ten you have to pick one to be your friend ? On what criteria would you decide ? If I know those criteria and I want to be your friend, I can come up to you and everything would go well

Why limit yourself to making one new friend? If there's a group of ten ppl and you all have some sort of common interest why don't you see if you could exchange numbers with a few of them.

I find that a lot of men have a " What can he do for me " complex before getting to know another guy. Once the man and them become cool, a genuine friendship is built upon. Also, a lot of men aren't secure and can feel a bit "gay" moving too forwardly with another guy.

Personally, I know a lot of my friends wanted to be my friends because they saw that I was good at hooking up with women. I could easily set up double dates at my place or theres and get them into the action. They had things I wanted, and I had chicks. Eventually we just became cool and wanted nothing but pure friendship from one other but things don't start out that way. Plenty people want to be my friends but a lot of them don't have nothing to offer me.

A friendship usually starts off as a business.. Even five year olds see a kid with a bunch of candy, befriend him, and in exchange let him play with his cool toys.

You have to ask yourself.. What are you bring to the table?

And some people are just "cool" and make other people feel good. But thats also what they are bribing to the table.. Good feelings. What are you bringing?

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