So I went out on a couple dates with this girl and her interest level was through the roof, she was texting me non stop and asking for second dates blah blah, on out second date I go for the kiss and she rejected and said it was only the second date. I just looked at her like what? And backed off, she thought I got mad and said she should leave, I said peace than, and calling her on her bluff she wound up staying and cuddling for a movie. I didn't text her that night or the next day and the day after she text me just saying hi, I didn't respond for about three hours and than I guess she got upset because she read it and didnt respond for hours and when she finally responded she sent an long message basis saying "I'm so sorry for making it awkward on out date but kissing usually leads to sex and I didn't want you to think I was a slut for putting out on the second date and that I thought your were mad at me because you didn't text me after the date or today, but I really like you so I text you today" I just replied with a basic no worries, I get where your coming from and went to sleep (it was 2 am) she text me back but I was sleeping so I text her today a teasing text in an attempt to set up another date and she read it and still hasn't answered as yesterday she did the same thing when she sent that overly long text. I don't know what to do with this girl, obviously her interest level is high but she's playing BS games. How should I proceed with this? I'm honestly on the verge of nexting this girl but I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt. Should I call her out on her shit, wait for her to contact me or just next her or something else entirely. Any advice is appreciated.

Personally, I think you should have like no time for this girl. She is ether attracted, or she isn't. Simple as that. once a girl is difficult, she usually stays difficult. You don't want that in your life do you? When i think of looking into your eyes, i see one HB.....When i look out the eyes of myself, i see 1,000,000 single HBs for the taking. you are spending WAY to much time dicking around with her. Its like fishing. Put the bait on the hook and throw it out there. wait five minutes. no bite? move to the next location.

On a secondary note....Not all women are ready to fuck, or be intimate every day of the month. They have a few really hot days, then period....then they are like a desert again ( usually) that's how my last girl friend was. keep in contact with her and message her every few days and test her with teasing of a sexual nature...if she starts to bite, she may be in season. seriously tho...find more girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I definitely dig what your saying and just for good measure, this isn't the only HB I'm talking to, just the one winning the race seeing as she's the only one that wasnt a "ho" I'm only
Spending extra time on her because she has alot of GF potential and for me that's something I rarely come across. She is interested obviously with how much she talks to me, but since I just kind of brushed her off after no intimacy I guess she thought I was upset with her and she started playing the conservative approach with me instead of being all over me like she was, I just wanna know how to get her guard back down basically

Answer these questions to yourself:

1. Do you genuinely like her for her?
2. Do you want to get in her pants quickly?
3. Do you see yourself with her for the long term?

Because if you answer yes to these 3 then you guys probably don't have the same intentions for the relationship. Honestly, when I start a relationship I tell her my intentions immediately. As for myself I like to be involved with long relationships once I like the girl I have been looking for. So I will spell that out to her, but it seems you have a girl that is looking maybe for a longer term relationship and has maybe had some bad experience and just doesn't want to put out just yet and might take some work and trust to get that far. To be honest though this is all speculation on my part and just trying to guess what your situation is. I hope this helps and if not well I tried. Good luck and it seems you have a good girl on your hands.

Right on! I wish you the best of luck

Haha thanks man, I'm thinking a freeze out for a few days, I don't want to just give into her because she said she likes me and all that mush, that would just show she can control me. What would you recommend friend? I just want to get it back to where thinking of me brings good emotions instead of negative like it is now how to overcome this rift.... Hmm

You know, relationships with girls are like pawns on a chessboard. They cant go backwards. I'm not sure i can help you. I do not have experience in this sort of thing. But i do wish you the best of luck