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| bamthebomb | PostPosted: Thu Jul 25, 2013 7:18 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Jun 06, 2013 6:02 pm Posts: 80 Yahoo Messenger: Bamthebomb Location: Romania, Sibiu | | i went out sarging.... club, night game my kind of fun, but it went horible. I went blank, no more openers in my head and all could think on the moment was mystery's stuff "who do you think lie more, man or woman?" but i felt like a total jackass using that material and i went rogue... so i oppened a few sets, but i did not where the hell i was, i went from comfort back to atraction when i should isolate...
This never happened to me before. What should i do in that situation if i find myself there once again?
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| yello_fever | PostPosted: Thu Jul 25, 2013 9:16 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jun 29, 2013 3:14 pm Posts: 116 Location: San Francisco | | PUt them on your phone. I have a notepad app where I typed in tons of canned information. I'm currently somewhat proficient in opening that I improvise and use more situational topics, but when I go blank for some reason, I look at my cheat sheet: I have A1 openers, A2 negs/games, A3 screening questions, boyfriend destroyers, etc. You can always pretend to receive a text or email while talking. You can also put lists of IOIs and have something to remind you when to isolate, and quotes on how to isolate (ex. It's loud here, why don't we move over there).
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| bamthebomb | PostPosted: Fri Jul 26, 2013 11:44 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Jun 06, 2013 6:02 pm Posts: 80 Yahoo Messenger: Bamthebomb Location: Romania, Sibiu | | ok, so i went out again... again same problem so o went to the bar for a drink, made my game and started all over. I got rejected and i don't why, this never happened to me so soon. I used Misha's direct oppener
Me: Hi, can you tell me where i can find a great place to eat?
Her: hmmm (the moment she wanted to speak i overtalked her)
Me: That's not the reason i asked you that. I wanted to tell you look great.
Her: Thank you
Me: I'm Bam
Her: Madalina
Me: From here are you?
Her: From Sibiu (place i live)
Me: Great! I stay here a few days. Can you tell me places i can visit?
Her: hmmmmmm
and that her gf came and my set was gone
Me: Got to go, have a nice time!
What went wrong?... this kills me! I didn't get to talk to her at all
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| fishnwomen | PostPosted: Mon Jul 29, 2013 6:54 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Mon May 20, 2013 3:38 pm Posts: 323 | | Not the end of the world. I get laid regularly and I still have sets go horribly wrong all the time.
There are a lot of things you can't control in a set, including their mood when you enter. You can change that over the course of the interaction however.
This girl probably gets compliments all day, the pick up artist needs to be the exception to the rule... neg hit her.
Try coming up with your own openers, if they actually happened, the easier they are to use... the opener doesn't matter too much. The conversation does.
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| homelessmango | PostPosted: Wed Jul 31, 2013 7:28 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jul 31, 2013 3:51 am Posts: 3 | | Dude, you know how many times she gets asked boring *** questions like, "do you know any good places around here? where are you from?"
Girls hear this crap all the time and it turns them off and lowers your value in their eyes. Theyre thinking oh gosh another guy asking the same kind of boring questions. Pick something random and interesting or start making comments about the environment or the people around. Start talking about something interesting instead of asking her boring, lame general questions
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