| Kino.
This will be the foundation of the kiss. The groundwork that is Kino will let you determine whether she is comfortable with you touching her. If she is, the better chance you have with the kiss (considering she's shy).
Be sure to be on the lookout for IOI's after applying the kino:
Good
- She reciprocates
- She smiles
- She makes a lot of eye contact
- Again, she reciprocates
I'm sure you've read that people will unconsciously mimic people they are attracted to. This logic applies here too. If you playfully nudge, poke, pinch her and she finds ways to do it back to you, you are in good shape.
Bad (common sense)
- She brushes your kino off
- She doesn't reciprocate
This should be pretty simple. But the main thing that I see guys mess up, is coming to terms with the fact the girl isn't responding very well. As soon as you get an inkling that she's not feelin it, just back off. I've seen guys rebound on a bad situation because he said "oh well, fuck it" regarding a girl that was bein bitchy. Later in the night, she apologized to him for being bitchy and re-introduced herself. And that is a lesson on why it's important to show class within your game strategy/tactics, don't burn any bridges!
How to do it:
You mentioned isolating her outside: I agree, especially since you already have some rapport (from the 2 other dates).
I would just go hard on the kino so she knows you are focused on her. Get her mind accustomed to you touching her by starting light.
Try this, next time you are talking and she's sitting near you (preferably next to you), ask the girls there opinion (about whatever topic) and while asking, look over and touch her arm with your hand with a "what do you think?" type look.
Just make sure you are following all IOIs because the sooner you figure out that she's absorbing your advances, the easier it will be for you to plan your actual kiss.
Good luck man.
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