You are sitting there, drinking your beverage in a local, public building, and you notice across from you this attractive woman. You're eyes slowly roll up from her legs to her ass, up the small of her back and eventually to her face. She then turns around and notices you looking at her. You're face has turned bright red and you quickly look away as if to say non-verbally " I'm sorry I was looking, you caught me and I feel terrible."

I'm willing to bet that the VAST VAST majority of guys do this. Consider this, your walking down the street, and another guy passes you by, you guys make eye contact, nod and then keep on moving. You don't feel guilty or embarrassed for noticing him, or even looking at him. WHY? Because your brain assumes that he knows that you weren't interested in him at all. YOUR BRAIN IS ALWAYS..****** ALWAYS ASSUMING THE WORST***and the wrong things....

So, when you were in the public building, and you noticed the cute girl across the way. She notices you noticing her, yet our minds scream at us " oh no, she knows EVERY THING about us". " she knows we are attracted to her, she knows we don't have a job, and we have a pimple on our ass...and we have small dicks" and the list goes on and on. EPIC SHAME ON YOU!

The problem isn't that we look away or down or become beaming red when we look at a woman. No, that is just the symptom of the much larger problem. The problem of your state of mind. Your frame is all wrong. When you sat there with your drink, you should be praying that she turn her head and notices you. That should be your frame of mind. Then, when you are burning a hole in the back of her head, and she turns around you smile, wave, or wave her on over to your table, OR a vast majority of other technical approaches or pick up lines that I'm sure a billion PUA's on this site could quote. You should not be thinking, "oh im sorry " or " oh she looked at me" but you should think "This person would and should love to meet someone like me. " or " finally i got her attention!"

One last thought. If you make eye contact with anyone and look away, they are just going to turn around or laugh at you with there friends or about any other negative thing you could think of. However, if you just smiled and not looked away there is at least a 1% chance that she is going to smile back. And if she smiles, you could then wave, and if she waves you could then wave her to come over to you. The point is, 1% chance of sleeping with a cute girl is VASTLY VASTLY VASTLY larger by an infinite margin when compared to the 0% chance you will receive when you do nothing.

Conclusion: Your frame of mind is extremely important. handsome guys are confident, because they are handsome. Therefor Confident guys are handsome because they are confident. It works both ways. When your frame of mind chances to Confident you will naturally not look away because you know she perceives you as handsome, and thus obviously wants you to wave her over to your table.