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1- Always be psychologically ready to pick up
There are hot girls all around us — at the coffee shop or waiting on you at a clothing store, in line at the bank, on the road… I actually get the most of my pickups in such places. While my conversion rate on these is a little lower than with women I meet at clubs or parties (they’re not explicitly looking for it), surprising locations have turned up some good discovers. Girls don’t imagine to be picked up they go about their daily lives, and, so, they are that much happier when it happens. Often, I give a conversation while waiting in a store, on what’s going on around us. You could say on the wait “I hope there’s a banquet at the end of this line”, what she’s selecting to buy “Huh, I looked at that but I didn’t take it. Have I made a mistake?”, or anything, it could be on the road, too. The thing is, you have a few moments to look a hot woman, then look around, think a line and say it in your most self-assured manner.how to pick up women

2- Don’t fear rejection
What do you have to miss by being rejected? A little vanity, and a few time (because nobody bats 1,000), not even that. If you go into a pick up dreading rejection, that’s what you’ll show, and that’s what you’ll get. Be less involved to the result. Visualize that you’re just approaching this woman to have a talk, not to bang her. If it goes more than talk, consider it a bonus. A sincere smile and a few jokes will show your best side, and charm her up to you that much faster.
So remember: If a woman is seeing you as a sexual partner — which is what you want — what you say is perhaps not as important as how you say it, including tone of voice and body language. Show confidence by looking into her eyes and standing upright, with your shoulders back rather than curved. Don’t let your voice rise up an octave. Your gestures must be slow and careful, like James Bond, not fast and nervous. Have in mind that confidence discourages rejection.

3- Look her body language
There are different signs depending on the situation. Remember, if she plays with some things, she’s nervous maybe not comfortable or uninterested. If she licks her lips deliberately or not, runs her hands through or shakes her hair or plays with her earlobe, she’s sending you positive signals.
What about smiling? The right kind of smile.
If she shows her teeth and laughs agreeably, you’re right. If, on the other hand, she doesn’t show teeth, or she looks other side when she smiles, she’s just being polite, perhaps because you’re boring her.

4- Give the 15-minute test
Maybe it takes you longer at first, but finally you should be able to discover in about that time whether a woman is interested in you, and up for casual sex. Reading body language will tell you something
You may think that you could be writing off women by judging too rapidly. But have in mind that it takes a certain mixture of to find a woman to suit your desires. Once you are getting good at directing your conversations through these topics without being too blunt, it takes about 15 minutes to get a good impression of your chances with the girl in front of you.

5- Recognize when to cut your losses
She’s looking for someone maybe, for example. This will be exposed in your 15-minute test. If a girl doesn’t pass that test, kindly bow out of the conversation and don’t feel bad about it. You need to know which women to evade.
Attractive women are typically spoken for so don’t waste time: Establish if she’s or not a single early on in your pickup. It doesn’t have to be difficult, but can instead be quite simply turned into a question about interests

6- Give negative hits
You can use a compliment at first, but that should be it for a while. After, you have to mix in a few negative hits, particularly if she’s good looking, just to save her honest and her ego in check.
For example, “I guess you’ll join the (insert celebrity name here) club when it comes to hairstyles. I’ve seen a lot of girls with the same style, but I must say it suits you a lot better than most.”
A negative hit is not the same thing as an insult. It ends on a somewhat positive, but it makes her to know that you’re no pushover. After you have her interest this way, you may permit yourself one compliment. But if you adore her, she will feel she can leave you. Don’t compliment so much.how to pick up women

7- Get a good wingman
On the road you perhaps can’t have a friend along, but will you need one. Your perfect wingman is funny and a good talker to keep things going when there’s a silence, only he’s not more so than you. Most essentially, a good wingman has your interests in mind, not his own.

8- Close the day.
You have numerous options here. If things are going well and she doesn’t invite you somewhere, you can suggest you move in various manners, according to the signals she’s sending:
“Let’s get a drink somewhere”
“I’m thinking we could use a little more privacy”
“What I want to do with you right now can’t be done in public, so we’d better go elsewhere.”
If things aren’t so good, never leave without asking for her phone number or e-mail address. But if you don’t get some way to contact her, all you’ve had is a nice talk.

9- Work on many leads at the same time
It’s more fun, which is finally the point. But beyond that, you learn faster, and may even be able to do things you’ve learned with the other woman .Dating, it’s all about the learning curve. Also, it’ll be much simpler to take things informally with each woman if there is more than one. This will raise your confidence, and if there’s one thing girls are good at, it’s confidence. If she feels you’re tranquil, cool and not after her like a dog in heat because you have other options, she’ll try much harder to be No. 1 on list.

10 Think of your strengths in her the eyes.
Relatively commonalities that will ensemble your purposes could have to do with music, films… something that could give themes for future dates. Of course, there’s the shared love of getting physical, the great mismatch neutralizer.

There you have them, the essential about how to pick up women. Remember that picking up requires practice, so keep going on.
Jay

Good advice. Nice post man!