Hi There Ya'll Mr Controversy here...

so recently i got a couple of girls who where on my contact list txting me saying that they missed me lots, as at the moment iam away still on holiday.. so would i be showing a lower value or possibly needy if i did txtd back i miss u to ( No i havent txt them back yet ) lol...

but recently i did txt another gurl saying instead of saying i miss u, i txt back saying " Yea i sure do miss home" and she txted back saying " oh so u missed home and not me" and as iam still learning the game, i didnt know how to reply her as i dont know she was being genuine or she doing a test on me??

so i was hoping anyone out there could help me out in this... THank u Heaps

Regards

MR Controversy

Here's what works good for me as a reply when they text me about missing me:

Thx u r 2 cute =)

Another thing that I find works well without surrendering frame, I will tell her about something I saw or heard that reminded me of something we did together. Don't make a big deal of it though, just a quick remark. If she presses you for more info about it, it means she really liked that you said this, but you've got to either change the subject or ignore her, otherwise she will have gotten all the validation she needs, just like what happens when you tell her that you missed her too.

Those a good points made by u King Midas... Will field test them out...

many Thanks again

Mr Controversy

I always respond to that with I miss me too. Just something cocky and goofy at the same time I usually get a laugh outta it.