Hi,

About six months ago I dated this girl which ended up in a failure : failure-report-vt157412.html
My problem is that still after six months, I think about her now and then.
For example if someone looks slightly familiar my mind wonders off and a depressing feeling creeps in my head.

Second thing is that i am seeing another girl at the moment, and i am fighting oneitis with her.
Funny thing is that I am only able to get her out of my head, by thinking about girl i dated six months ago!! how freaky..

I think I have some serious issues here..

You might be basing your happiness off of other people too much.

Instead I suggest you to create your own reality and be like fuck this shit I'm draining the happiness from my own stuff and the things I already have (your reality).

I usually clown around and don't give a fuck much, eventually, people get that I don't give a fuck about what I say or do, my words and actions lose integrity and that's where I can be free to do whatever I want to.

Thanks...I never looked at it from that perspective...

I could see myself saying: "I think I have some serious issues here.."
(speaking from myself) Looking deeper into the past, I actually found that the reason I could not let go, was because I actually did not like her but had invested too much.

It was the lost investment, that I gave and did not receive which pissed me off. I got less than I gave and never could forget it, there was no kick back. just like girls always speak of the 'jerks' that used them... analogous
if you met a better girl as a result of all that crap, you'd forget her no problem

I would reflect and see in a breakdown of the whole story; how little worth she actually delivered to your life

Read this:
http://deoxy.org/egofalse.htm

It will help you one way or another.