I just got invited out to a drink with this girl I've been talking to for a few weeks. We've had lunch together before, but nothing really happens and I want to be able to take the next step with her. Here's some info on her:
- She's smart as hell, working a job while going to graduate school.
- Not bad looking HB7
- Problem is she does all the talking. I mean literally, I get maybe 10 things in before she takes over the conversation and all I end up doing is listening. Need to change that.
Any tips on how to handle this would be appreciated. The bar we're going to is pretty upscale, but she always insists on paying for her own things.

The problem with these types of girls is that: often times, they aren't listening to what you have to say. They don't really want your opinion, they just want you to listen.


This is a tough one. But I like to counter act these by touching while I speak (shoulder, arm, hand) . It seems to hold their attention to what you're saying a little better, and keep them quiet for a little while longer.


if you really like her, my advice is to listen. If you don't, she'll find some dude that will.

Yeah I tried what you suggested. At times I held her hand when I was saying something serious and even played with her manicured nails as a joke. She seemed receptive to it. It's still to early to say whether she''s interested or not, all I know is I need to step up my game.

Look at her like you want to have sex with her, hold, hold, slowly move in, kiss.

Just physically escalate, let her talk you into her pants. Boom!