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I am not sure if our first date went good or bad.
If you are thinking this then 95% chance that it went badly. She already said she was "busy" these other days. Cut her out cold, if she becomes unbusy let her contact you. You need to focus on volume until your game skill level catches up, then move on to quality. In the meantime dont pursue problem/lukewarm chicks as you are going to waste 90% of your effort on 10% of your results.
finally this whole "childish" issue is a complete red herring, its the wrong answer to the wrong question, forget about that.