So I've been talking to this girl for a minute (like 10 messages back and forth lol). We were having some good banter and I noticed her starting to open up and send longer and longer messages about herself. Here is the last part of the convo

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Me: "blah blah blah... have you ever been to ---- before?"
Her: "I haven't! haha but I hear that is a good spot for a date"
Me: "Neither have I - I think we should go. That is, if you're up for meeting a guy that (referenced back to earlier joke between us here)"....
Her: "I've met a good number of guys from here. And it's always a surprise. How have your experiences been?"

Is she playing hard to get? Not as interested as I thought? How do I handle this outrage?

dont tell her you think she should go.... tell her you are going, and she is welcome to meet you for a drink...or whatever it is that attracts people to whatever place you're talking about.... frame it so you convey you already have a plan for what you're doing with your night...and you're going to have a great time whether she is there or not.. if she wants to meet up, cool...if not, it doesnt matter because your night isn't dependent on her joining you....that's just how I would have handled it, personally.

as for when she asked how your experiences have been........a gentleman never kisses and tells

Excellent advice from Motownsoul! Don't wait for permission, or for her to give you the green light. Just tell her you're going and you'd love for her to join. I like the "gentlemen don't kiss and tell" response as well, but she may actually want to talk about online dating as she may be a bit unsure or had some horrible dates. It's always fun to share first date horror stories as it gets her to open up and have a laugh. I'd ask her about the worst 1st date she's ever been on. She will undoubtedly have a good story and it will give you a chance to distance yourself from the idiot that gave her such a bad experience because you'll instantly be on her side. Just a woman's POV - I hope it helps.

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