I want to have sex with girls, but I don't want to invest much effort and money to get a girl into bed. I want to save money, and I need to put much effort into work. If I spend a lot of effort and money in getting a girl into bed, I will save much less money, that's not what I want, because I don't think it is worthwhile. Money in hand gives me a feeling of security, the less money I have, the less security I feel. I am willing to pursue girls if it doesn't cost a lot of effort or money. I want to find a method to pick up girls which can save me time and money. Also I know that sex is temporally gratifying, without sex, we can still live, we can even live happily. It is not a necessity, it is just icing on the cake. If the method to pick up girls can greatly help my work, that would be great, but I don't find it is difficult to believe that the method to pick up girls can greatly help my work.

Also If I go to bars to pick up girls, it will affect my heath because I may not have enough time to sleep.

Also I feel it is a hassle to pick up girls, there is so much to learn, and so much money needs to be spent. It may make me broke.

But if we want to find a wife, it seems that we need to learn the game and practice it.

What can I do? Please help.

NOTHING of value in life comes easy my friend. You have to put in the work to get the prize.

I had very few girls, some long relationships but all of them had one thing in common: i probably never spent more then 5-10$ on a date, unless I am actually in serious relationship. Also if I go out with intent of having fun I usually set aside a fixed amount to spend, so even if any girl becomes part of that expense (but usually doesn't) I don't really mind it. So, as for me, most of what i will spend will be my time and that is pretty valuable too.

As for your precious time I'd suggest you go hitting on girls anywhere u see someone hot during your normal day as opposed to going to clubs/bars with an exclusive aim to bang something.

Use money to earn money-- from women, start here: pua-intermediate-finance-vt163943.html

The wealthiest and most financially stable people are not savers; rather they are good investors. Sam Walton, Ray Kroc, and Howard Schultz are good examples.

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I am ambivalent about pursuing girls. On one hand, I want to bang girls, on the other hand, I don't want to spend a lot of time, effort and money. It is OK that I go out in my neighborhood, but I don't want to go out of my neighborhood, because once I go out of my neighborhood, it will take me considerable time and money, and I am not willing to spend it. I am saving time and money to feel security.

I read a lot of PUA books, currently I am halfway through the book real world seduction. I've gained some concepts from those books, and I spend quite a lot of time to interact and with girls, however, the results are poor, and I virtually end up wasting my time and going nowhere. I think that I may need to focus on mystery method and constantly polish my skills originated from the book. What's your take?

I spend a lot of time reading the books and chatting with girls, but I end up going nowhere, I am sort of frustrated. I always have difficulty in inviting girls out.

Please advise. Thank you.

Here's what I think your problems are...

1. "On one hand, I want to bang girls, on the other hand, I don't want to spend a lot of time, effort and money."

Okay bro, let me tell you how IGNORANT this shit sounds... Let's view your pick up journey as starting up a company for a second... You want to make it on the Forbes list but you don't want to put in any of the work? Wtf is wrong with you? Quit being lazy.

Talking and interacting with women effectively is a SKILL dude. It's not a super power. If you want to develop this skill, just like ANY other skill you have in life... You have to put in the work for it. This isn't a super power that comes from reading a book.

2. "It is OK that I go out in my neighborhood, but I don't want to go out of my neighborhood, because once I go out of my neighborhood, it will take me considerable time and money, and I am not willing to spend it. I am saving time and money to feel security."

Security... Everyone want's security. I'll tell you something dude... In order to get what you don't have, you will have to do things that you have never done before. The only way to get different results is to TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT. Start taking risks. Fuck feeling "secure" or "comfortable." You wanna know what the best way to get good at pick up is...? Start stepping the fuck out of your comfort zone and do things that you usually wouldn't do. Try it out just to see what happens.

3. I read a lot of PUA books

Quit fucking reading so much. Try this out... for every 1 hour you read learning about pick up, spend 4 hours out practicing.

4. "the results are poor"

Don't blame the techniques or whatever you've learned so far. Blame your lack of skill. Stop being so outcome dependent. The neediness for sex shows right through as soon as a girl looks into your eyes. Enjoy the process. Learn from the failures. See it as a journey, not a jump. No matter what book you read... I guarantee that you will not get good over night.

You seem like a very negative person based off of what you have typed. Negative people get negative results. Fix yourself and the bullshit you bring to the table first.

^ That. Majikal said it better than I could have done.

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Cost of entry to a club: £5
Cost of drinks for two people x4: £80
Cost of taxi home: £10
Total cost of picking up women: £95

Cost of half an hour at your local massage parlour: £50

Didn't Gambler talk about this in his PUA package thingy?
He was talking about getting girls to the rich guys and making the rich guys pay for shit and draining off of them. Getting them as friends, dominating them and supporting them with chicks to get free cashez.

Do not, become a product of some method. It is just a name.