All right guys. So ive been talking to this
Girl for some time now n we've gotten sexual.
At first Ididn't think Much of it.

We share common interest, we're both
Artist, i had her intrest there. She has a bf so
I didn't try to persue her as much. But, now we're
Beyond all that.

It started when she sent me a nude. Her reason
Was she didn't get the response she wanted
From her bf n wanted my opinion. This where
I think i screwed up, i replied by praising her
Beauty.

Few weeks passed n we started getting sexual
Via text. She randomly told me she enjoys
Anal, how shes good at bjs, ect. Ive replied sexually
Too, she's even stated numerous times how im
Getting her wet n horny.
lol
This is where im stuck at!!!!! >:(

I can't get her to come over or nothing lol

She told me recently in a text
That she isnt sure, she said i have my life n she has hers.
shes said shes scared of doing things and falling
For me. Then she said she pretty much friend zoned me.
Fyi im moving states next month.

So this is where im at.
She recently sent me a sexy pic of herself..

My thought was by replying bck with a neg??


Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Reply with this "you are so fkn hot it's a good thing you are [wherever she is] because if you were here I'd fuck you like a bull in heat."

Stop being a pussy.

She's sexual as hell with you, escalate for fucks sake!

She says "but I have a boyfriend." Say "like I said, lucky you aren't here right now."

Next time you are alone together, its on.

Ps - if she doesn't go for it, it was never going to happen. Move on.

Also, there is nothing wrong with telling a girl she's hot if you do it from a place of non neediness. Being unambiguous is a good thing!

Believe me ive gotten sexual with her too
Its just shes teasing it feels like..like
If shes using me as a self esteeem boost or
Something.

So give it to her. Tell her how hot she is and how badly you want to fuck her. There is nothing wrong with making someone feel good about themselves!!

It may shock you, but we like people who make us feel good about ourselves... Lol

C'mon dude stop over thinking it!

Thats the thing i cant get her to come
Over.

So? Stop chasing her, just be super sexual with you texts, let her know in no uncertain terms that you want to bang her brains out. Stop giving her so much damn power dude! If you have made it clear what you want, when (not if, so long as you don't get needy) she's ready for it, it will go off! Patience mate!

I say this a lot because so many guys forget it, but keep gaming other girls! Oneitis only happens when guys don't have options, or at least think they don't.

It's one girl man, let her initiate every text convo, when she does go crazy. You may be surprised what happens!!

Thanks a lot man this cleared up a lot of questions.
Im going to keep that game plan. Btw i sent what u said
And she said her bf would rather youtube old ufc fights.

I got this


Til then like u said seek my other options.

Lol, awesome dude. She's just told you she's not happy with her boyfriend, play it right and you are in easy.

You can respond with so much here too. Anyway, I'll leave you too it, be creative, be direct, don't bullshit. Tell her what you want, take responsibility and you will be fucking her in no time.

You cant escalate too quickly over text. You have to call her up to meet up with you somewhere public to build some rapport. She's obviously lacking rapport. Instead of hitting the club, she came sexting you. What does that mean? She's insecure. If she shamelessly wants dick, she can just go to a club waiting to be picked up, but she didn't. That could only mean she is very horny, just that she has a super strong ASD. She didn't friendzone you, she only CLAIMED she did to get you to work harder to "save her". She's been waiting for you the whole time can't you see this?
Send her a text to tease her about how her bf didn't spank her enough. Then proceed to ask her out for a quick short coffee break to talk about her bf telling her you are interested in her story. Once you fill that rapport part in, then you can start escalating physically and sexually. Then you will think the rest.

Take 2 steps back, and then one forward. Lower her value with negs and when you are together attack

I think you are looking at this thing the wrong way. This girl obviously doesn't wanna lose the bf hence she is scared of losing him or falling for you as she puts, however she is looking for some excitement and acting like a dick that wants to fuck will work against you. Be "the other guy", be safe. She knows you find her attractive (nagging her will make u look mean and bitter but stop with the compliments) and as soon as you start distancing yourself and being aloof about the whole thing - she will be forced to invest in the relationship.

Don't try to get her to come to you nor to take her out public (she is not looking for a relationship just affection) - make sure she knows you have a life and your attention is being offered to other women if she's too busy for you (don't be blunt but hint it). All you need is some patience and she will notice that you are getting bored and she is loosing you cuz she loves the attention you give.

No offence dude but this is not good advice. He's already tried getting her alone, it didnt work. If he keeps pushing to get her to hang out it looks needy as fuck.

He's already got sexual, he doesn't NEED to build rapport. If you fuck a girl it builds an absolute shitload of rapport and comfort. You were naked together for goodness sake! How much more comfort and rapport do you want? Women are different to men, barring a few odd (and fucked up) exceptions, if a girl sleeps with a man she gets emotionally connected to him. It just happens. How many times have you slept with a girl a couple of times and had the problem of her NOT wanting to hang out with you? Fuck all right? The problem is getting them to get the fuck out of your place, right?

No, she's already got sexual, she's probably got an emotional connection to her boyfriend she's afraid to lose but she's not happy with him an the sex probably isn't that good. OP needs to get sexual as possible over text, then, next time he gets an opportunity to isolate her (needs to be patient and game other girls), go absolutely full on manwhore and escalate the fuck out of her until she's gagging for it.

He didnt mention getting sexual in person, he got sexual over text. It's two different story. Girl needs some levels of rapport before you get them to bed cuz they don't wanna feel like slut. That's the reason why we PUA exist. This typical scenario happens a lot.

If you are comfortable enough to send nude pics to someone, you are way past the rapport stage. He needs to build attraction and seduction. Don't over think the situation *fuck what she thinks - u decide what she must think