I've had this problem for aslong as i can remember and it's really starting to annoy me.

When i was about 14 (17now) i never really got as many girls as i know i should have, i was good looking enough because people and girls in general said i was, and i knew anyway.

But recently something that a girl said to me today made me think *shit thats me*,

she said, 'oh yeah because he's goodlooking, he thinks he doesn;t have to try'

This happens to me alot, i'll have girls checking me and stuff, but most of the time i never really follow up...

when i get IOI's i never really go out of my way to pursue the girl unless i really want to.
This used to affect my game alot because basically my game sucked...i didn't feel the need to try since i already saw girls checking me and i knew a couple fancied me.

Now that i'm older a whole 3 years older

I feel my game as surfered and isn't at the level it should be...because i really have to work hard to understand fundamental stuff which i think i've taken care off now.

Ok for the people who want the short gist,
Has this issue/situ ever been a problem for anyone, i.e. goodlookin, but shit game (to put it as such).

So basically is if i come with shit game it's awkward because the girl would probably be expecting more.

Discuss?
It was pretty much a ramble thread but people who get the gist can respond

hey man, i didnt have my first girlfriend till i was almost 17, and that didnt last more then three weeks lol. dont feel dejected dude, most of us were in the boat you were in. thats why we're here.
It sounds like you just need to open yourself up. surf the internet for ways on becoming a communication GOD. if girls are attracted to you for your looks but you arent really connecting with them, learn to open and build comfort. these attrabutes arent really something that can be learned in one post, but learing them takes time, practice, and repition.
i found this like 3 minutes ago, i posted it in the lounge, but ill give it to you here anyway. its a break down of the communication patterns of men and women.

http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Relationsh ... ion_Styles

good luck pal,

PB

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