I agree w/your point about why women like a great body (at least that is a big part of the reason), but interestingly, women do not actually care that much about body, at least according to what they say and put in their profiles. I sampled hundreds of women on match.com and it turns out that 'About Average' was the most chosen type in the "About my date" section, tied with athletic and toned. 33% did not have a preference at all. What they will care is about a misleading body.. that picture makes the poster look nearly my size and much more cut than me, and I am 180lbs @ 5'8" at maybe 10% bf. Showing up as a 112lbs 5'8" guy with a picture like that is a recipe for dissapointment
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Why do women like guys with great body? Not entirely because of how buff or cut they look, but they are attracted to the dedication, goal-oriented and self-discipline that they have.
As for your "game", I agreed you have none. Online dating is a bit different than day game due to the fact it lacks of person to person interaction and the ability to fully express your personality. In real life, you can just walk up to a girl and say "hi you're cute, give me your number". It would definitely work if you do it right with confidence and good body languages. Seeing someone in flesh standing in front of you create comfort between the two people. However, with online dating, you don't have this luxury. You start with zero comfort. She doesn't know who you are or whether if you're a creep or serial killer, so definitely she won't be giving out her number to you. Try to create more comfort before number close and do make it fun. Engage her emotional rather than just stay on fluffy talk.
EX: "Why do you like jogging? Is it because of the runner high? etc.... vs "so you're a jogger?"
Another key point is anticipating their responses when you ask a question. "so you're a jogger?" - what do you think she would answer with? Either "yea" or "no". If a question doesn't serve its purpose to get you closer to closing, DO NOT ASK.
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